Post Date December, 03 2023
I often hear wives complain that after entering middle age, my husband seems to be less sexually interested in her. Is it because he no longer feels young, beautiful, and deformed, or has he had an affair? "It's normal for a wife to worry about it again, but it's not always for this reason that men become sexually bored in middle age.".
When men reach the age of about 35, their physical condition begins to decline from peak to peak. After the age of 45, they often feel less energetic and physically than before. When they are still doing the same work as when they were young, they often feel tired or overwhelmed. Middle-aged men are often the backbone of a company or unit, worrying and suffering every day, and maintaining complex interpersonal relationships among colleagues.
In family life, there are old people and young people, and they worry about everything. In the family economy, they find ways to generate more income for their families within a reasonable range. Under the contradiction of decreased energy and physical strength and increased burdens, middle-aged men often feel physically and mentally exhausted, while various signs of low sexual function, memory, thinking abilities, etc. often lead to a lack of self-confidence in middle-aged men.
Since the above changes are an objective reality that middle-aged men cannot reverse, as their wives, they should also understand that complaining is better than understanding. On the basis of not understanding her husband, a wife's indifference to her husband can lead to a series of negative emotions such as anger, anxiety, and depression, as well as corresponding behaviors such as coldness and harsh words. In this situation, either a quarrel occurs between the husband and wife, which damages the feelings of both parties, or makes the husband even more worried. The wife's anger increases, worsens the family atmosphere, and does nothing to help.
It is beneficial for a wife to give understanding to a middle-aged husband. In understanding, consideration can lead to tenderness in the wife's face and beautiful words. When the husband returns home, he will feel warm. A wife may wish to give her husband some good comments and encouragement when he is in low spirits, and eventually receive a warm return from his husband.
When a husband feels tired, a wife might as well give him some personal space to not disturb him. When a husband is willing to tell his wife about his unhappiness in his career, he can listen patiently. In terms of sexual life, although the frequency of sexual intercourse among middle-aged couples will decrease, the sexual life of couples also includes various aspects such as the warm atmosphere created between them, mutual care and caressing, and joint activities. Considerate wives will also use these to meet their sexual needs.
In short, if a wife wants to improve her husband's "sexual boredom" during middle age, she must first give him understanding and consideration. In addition, if his husband is often stressed or in a bad mood, she can persuade him to see a psychologist to maintain a healthy heart.
