How do women fight against mistresses? Many people choose to divorce when a third party appears in their marriage, and there are also those who fight to defend their marriage. So, in order to better protect this family, what can women do to defeat the mistress? Quickly follow the editor to learn more together.
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1. Female subordinates
There are hidden rules everywhere in the workplace, although many girls complain about sex and do not want to be hidden by rules. However, there are many women who are more sexually inclined, and they are not particularly disliked behind hidden rules, because hidden rules can help them avoid detours in the workplace and being hidden is a shortcut.
These mistresses know their husbands better than their wives. In addition to using affection to tie men down, they also take care of them carefully. Tired cheating men love this trick. They know their boss and boss are married and are willing to give up their status. It is precisely their selfless dedication that gives cheating men a sense of guilt and makes them even more reluctant to give up.
Once you discover that your husband has a close relationship with a female subordinate, as a wife, you should first see it in your eyes and keep it in your heart. You should find excuses to visit your husband's company, show off the love between husband and wife and family happiness in his company, create conditions to chat up with that female subordinate, and quickly become friends. Then, you should find opportunities to sidetrack and gossip with the female subordinate, so that she can be impressed by your wisdom and magnanimity, Also due to being too familiar with each other, their interests fade away.
2. Night scene glamorous girl
Soaking in bars and nightclubs has become the most fashionable way of leisure for modern people, and men are particularly fond of it. In the nightclub or bar, under the atmosphere of lighting and music, and under the stimulation of alcohol, you can see many heavily makeup beautiful women, which is more prone to sexual encounters. Many people's first infidelities and one night stands are triggered in nightclubs or bars.
Generally speaking, these women do not take one night stands seriously, and they also hold a playful attitude. However, there are also some women who fall into an emotional vortex after seeing a man with a prominent wealth or irresistible charm, and engage in a husband fight with you.
When dealing with such a glamorous night girl, you should also fight your wits and courage. If you compare your beauty or figure, you will definitely not be able to match it, but you need to find out what sets you apart from these women. Women in the nightclub often go to bars, and there must be more than one man having sex. The reason for pestering your husband is definitely for a purpose. So, when you discover that your husband has such an affair, don't get angry first. You need to help your husband analyze and repel the enemy.
3. Divorced women
Divorced women often snatch other people's husbands because of loneliness, and being able to snatch them over can make them feel proud. They believe that their lover has many advantages, such as having money to rely on in their daily life, having a stable career, knowing better than their previous husband to love and comfort themselves, and being afraid of being abandoned by their lover and not being able to find another man. They will have no scruples and no shame at all.
Although divorced women disregard their own face, they also have a weakness, which is the fear of harming their children. Every woman has a strong maternal instinct, and they can abandon everything for the sake of their children. This feeling is particularly strong for divorced women. Because she believes that her husband is gone, her happy marriage is gone, and only her own children still belong to her. For children, they are doubly affectionate. Therefore, when a divorced woman comes to grab your husband, you can still use your children to write articles. You can let your child influence him, or find her child, and use her child to intimidate her. She will surely gradually give up fighting for the sake of the child.
Many female friends have one or two best friends. All the grievances encountered in marriage will be told to her best friend, and she will also bring her into her own life, such as frequent shopping and dining together. Perhaps you don't think there's much danger in this, but sometimes, danger happens right next to you, and the less likely things are, the easier they are to happen. Nowadays, many girlfriends will become contenders for your husband.
Don't be soft hearted when dealing with your best friend who is trying to steal your husband. If you are soft hearted, you are destined to fail. Of course, starting from your husband is also quite difficult, and you can only start from your best friend. You can pretend not to know and tell her in front of her, letting her know that you have learned about your husband's infidelity. Now your husband can give up on himself for your best friend, and tomorrow he will also give up on your best friend for another woman. Because my best friend has known you for many years, I am very familiar with your personality and still trust you. Therefore, what you say will definitely have a certain impact. It's really not enough, you can intervene in external pressure through your best friend's friends or family. She probably doesn't want to ruin her reputation in her circle of friends, so she will definitely make a choice.
5. Second mistress
Many mistresses are human mistresses because of money. Once the caregivers do not pay or give less money, they will come and play dirty tricks. It is precisely this kind of play that suppresses the infidelity of men and scares the wives, and many wives are often defeated by their bullying. They are particularly greedy, and no matter how much compensation you give them, they will feel that it is not enough, and they can only use money to make it difficult for caregivers. Especially for mistresses who have already given birth to children for caregivers, they are more likely to charge exorbitant prices.
When dealing with such mistresses who come to make money, don't use money to smooth it out. You should know that her appetite is always bottomless, and the only way is to confront each other with malice. There is no need to be afraid. As long as she dares to come and challenge, you must not be afraid to make a fuss. If she plays rashly, you must be even more shrewd than her, and subdue her in one go in terms of momentum. If you give in, her greed will never end, and you will fall into an endless bottomless pit, allowing yourself to be constantly exploited.
6. Junior born in the 1990s
Many post-90s generation are considered junior students partly due to their playfulness. They believe that love should be diverse and try more, whether it's a promise that lasts for a long time or the passion of not being in touch overnight. They feel that they need to experience it. Describing the '90s generation junior' as' fearsome 'is the most appropriate term. The other part is to live a high-quality life earlier. Material has a great temptation for them, so they try to satisfy their material needs by being a mistress.
The extramarital affairs between the post-90s junior and married men are played out, and they occasionally use the banner of love to invade others' marriages. Their rebellious personalities are not afraid of heaven and earth. If you unfortunately encounter a third generation in your marriage, it's best to first understand the personality of this younger sister born in the 1990s, and then "tease" the details of how they met and went to bed from your husband. You also need to win over your husband and fight together. To get rid of the post-90s mistress, it's important to take your time and avoid being too fast or too aggressive. As long as the post-90s mistress gets bored or worried, they will naturally think of leaving.
7. infatuated woman
The infatuated mistress values each other's "love" very much. They don't care about their lover's money, they only love his people, and many of them don't even care about the status given by cheating men. They are best at using "infatuation" to hold onto cheating men. Even if cheating men really encounter difficulties, they will still reach out to help. It is precisely their passionate "affection" that has become their most powerful weapon for grabbing someone else's husband.
In the eyes of infatuated women, your husband can only be shared by you and her two women, and he is not allowed to spend any more time. Therefore, you can invite a winning best friend to "snatch" your husband. After your husband falls for your best friend's scam, you can skillfully reveal it to the infatuated mistress, and her jealousy will surge out of her mind. The infatuated mistress will also weigh whether their efforts are worth it, and thus develop a sense of withdrawal.
The mistresses have both commonalities and differences. To persuade them to retreat, they need to be treated separately based on their personal situation and marital issues. They must not follow the rules and regulations, otherwise they will get twice the result with half the effort.