What to do when a child asks about sexual issues? How to face their sexual problems naturally

A kissing competition held publicly in Chengdu left onlookers at a loss. "Where do I come from?" Usually, children ask their parents this question. Parents are their first teachers, and sex education is no exception. However, according to the survey, most parents in Kunming usually talk about sexual discoloration, and early sex education in families is in a blank state.

Children's sexual questions

I am most afraid of children asking me such strange questions. Many guardians are unable to actively impart sexual knowledge to their children and do not know how to respond. Parents say, "You picked it up from the mountains, and your father planted the seeds in your mother's belly. You sprouted there and took it out of your mother's belly when you grew up... Some children believe that even at maturity, they don't know how people are born. At marriage age, what is the life of a couple

Some children ask their parents what a condom is when they see it in magazines and books? What's the use of it? Some children ask their parents why animals engage in sexual intercourse when they see it on TV programs and magazines. Some parents adopt an evasive attitude; Some parents say, "Children should not inquire about these things, they will know when they grow up.

Children want to know about sex and related knowledge, especially when they have sexual impulses. Many parents think that children's poor learning is the expression of unhealthy thoughts and consciousness. Therefore, it is shameful to complain and scold children for their conversational behavior. Parents' scolding makes some children responsible or even guilty for their normal physiological and psychological reactions during their growth and development. For example, masturbation is a common impulse solving method in adolescence. Many teenagers do not know the reasons for masturbation and its impact on the body, and shyly tell their parents that they cannot extricate themselves and carry a heavy mental burden, which is very detrimental to their physical and mental development.

In the survey, more than half of the guardians said that children with headaches usually answer or adopt a evasive attitude when asking questions about sex. Psychological education experts in the field of children say that the more parents are afraid of their children knowing, the stronger their children's curiosity and desire to know. If children cannot understand sexual knowledge through the correct channels, they will seek satisfaction from other channels (such as pornographic books, websites, etc.), Some children also adopt the method of peeping into the bodies of the opposite sex to satisfy their curiosity about sex.