When couples live together, the normal duration is approximately 5-15 minutes. So, most people believe that the longer the duration of each couple's life, the more sexual satisfaction they can obtain, which is not a scientific view.
Studies on sexual physiology have shown that the physical constitution and lifestyle habits of each couple are not the same, so it is difficult to determine a standard for how long a couple's life should last.
Reasons for disharmony in marital life
1. Psychological disorders
When you first become a couple, the "disharmony" that occurs in their daily lives is mostly due to inadequate psychological preparation, confusion, and psychological disorders, and the woman's problems are more serious.
Many women do not have a sufficient understanding of 'sex', are overly idealized or do not understand it at all, or some women have had sexual experiences that have been unsuccessful, which can affect their marital life and lead to psychological barriers when truly engaging in marital life.
2. Nervous life pressure
The main reason for this phenomenon is still work pressure. The accelerated pace of social life and fierce competition have put immense pressure on professional women in their work and life. Therefore, busyness and nervousness make them overlook the important marital life.
What to do if the couple's life is disharmonious?
1. Cultivate more emotions in daily life
Husband and wife life is the enjoyment of life by two people together, enjoying the joy and love in their world. If we view marital life as a task, we lose the meaning of this kind of life.
So couples should actively cultivate their emotions in daily life, communicate more with each other in daily life, and establish a harmonious emotional life.
2. Making Couple Life More Regular
Many couples, due to a lack of effective communication and family life, experience emotional breakdown and even divorce. In order to make up for the emotional deficiency and achieve a tacit understanding between the couple, both parties agree to a more regular marital life. This can not only meet the requirements of both parties, but also strengthen the intimacy between the couple and improve the quality of life they enjoy.
3. Mutual understanding and understanding
For the quality of life of a couple, both parties must make efforts and efforts. Do not blame any one person for the pressure of the couple's life. It is necessary to integrate the couple's life into everyone's heart. Both parties must understand and support each other in order to let emotions live and enhance mutual trust and love between the couple.