Post Date December, 02 2023
The maintenance of marriage cannot be separated from the communication between both parties, in order to solve the disputes and contradictions existing in life. In a marriage, there are no two people who are completely free from contradictions, because there is no absolutely perfect thing in the world. If you want to make the management and maintenance of your marriage more convenient, you need to start with communication. Only by finding the most suitable communication method for two people can you make your marriage go smoothly.
Tips from experts:
1. Poor communication to some extent undermines the normal state of marriage. As long as you are not alone in your life, whether in friends or marriage, you need to communicate with each other to ensure smooth progress in life. Given that you are married and your life is much more trivial, if you leave communication, your marriage is likely to enter an unhealthy state.
Communication requires appropriate time and atmosphere. For example, when the other party is working overtime, you must remember to find the other party to talk to. They simply do not have the heart and energy to listen to what you say. This is also an important point among the reasons for poor communication. Attention should be paid to communication methods to avoid touching sensitive points of the other party, such as criticizing the other party's parents.
My neighbor once complained to me that his other half couldn't communicate and was always distracted. At my suggestion, he changed the conversation time and shifted it to the weekend when the other party relaxed, resulting in a good communication effect. It can be seen that communication also requires skills.
2. No matter how perfect a marriage is, communication is indispensable. Without communication, it is difficult for couples to maintain a normal marital status. Communication allows each other to better understand their inner world, making life trivial and less friction. For the situation where communication between you after marriage is not smooth, it requires you to find out the reason from yourself, whether there is a problem with your communication style, or whether the problem you want to avoid is the other party's bottom line.
In a private letter from a netizen, I said that I was in a very bad state two years before my marriage, and neither of them was good at expressing themselves. However, after a communication, they felt the sweetness and became uncontrollable. At present, their relationship is in good condition. I hope you can find a way to communicate that you both enjoy and that communication can permeate your daily life. Such feelings must be indestructible.
