With the development of the economy, there is another reason for modern people to break up - job gap. For example, if there is a huge difference between a foreign company director and a dishwasher girl, they will naturally embark on the path of breaking up. So what about breaking up with a boyfriend with a job gap?
What to do if a boyfriend with a job gap says they should break up
First of all, we need to know whether the position gap is that you are much higher than the man's position or that the man is much higher than you. Although the latter is more common, the former is not uncommon in the development process of today's society. Because the problem can also be divided into two types, one is because the woman's position is too high, which causes the man to have a sense of inferiority and therefore needs to break up. Another reason is that the man's position is too high and he doesn't look up to the woman.
For women who hold too high a position, commonly known as "strong women", one can actually choose to moderate their strong female temperament. Most men actually don't want their wives to be too skilled because it can easily make them feel like 'I'm eating soft food'. But similarly, most men do not want their wives to be just yellow faced women who are completely helpless in household chores, so women should seek a middle ground among them. You cannot appear overly aggressive or appear too useless. So for women in the category of 'strong women', perhaps they should gradually learn to return to their families and return to their homes. At this time, I believe you will successfully save your ex boyfriend.
For the male partner who holds a high position, analyzing such a problem becomes even more complex. Firstly, it should be clarified whether the man wants to break up because he feels that the woman's income is too low, or because he is in a higher circle, so the two people do not have a common language? The former is relatively simple to solve, only requiring women to increase their income, which can be achieved through various means such as part-time jobs, job hopping, and opening stores. But the latter is undoubtedly difficult, because the man does not simply dislike women without money, but rather dislikes the other person's lack of experience. You should know that as a person's income increases, it is natural to enter higher circles and therefore also come into contact with better people. This is also what we are talking about. Behind the job gap is not only the gap in money and income, but also the gap in experience and experience.
So what should we do if the male partner's position is too high and they propose a breakup? It is recommended that women start from themselves and strive to follow in the footsteps of their boyfriends, at least not too far apart. After all, life is not an idol drama, and there is no drama where a domineering CEO falls in love with a cleaning girl. There is only a match for each other and a match between the best and the best. So if you want to be worthy of a boyfriend with a high position, you need to make yourself outstanding.
Some women are also full of doubts, saying that my education is not that high, and my income cannot match my boyfriend anymore. What should I do now? You should know that few women actually earn more than their husbands, but we can use warmth to hold onto men. Most men have been working outside for a day, and what they want most when they return home is undoubtedly a warm family atmosphere. Therefore, women can fully transform themselves into virtuous wives and mothers with high taste. It doesn't mean that you can only do housework, but also invest in your own beauty. Go to the beauty salon to make facial mask regularly, and go shopping to buy clothes for yourself, so that your whole life can be refined. Investing in one's own beauty is a timeless topic and a way for men to remain steadfast.
In summary, if a man proposes to break up with a job gap, women should calmly analyze the reasons in order to save their ex boyfriend's heart.