Post Date December, 03 2023
In a marriage, love is not the only thing that lasts forever. How many sweet and boundless couples perform scene after scene of breakup scenes every day. Of course, divorce does not mean that you will be single in your lifetime. Before remarriage, just understanding the 5 rules can help you become more proficient in your future marriage.
Summarize the reasons for marriage failure
We all make mistakes, but some people make mistakes in marriage. Before starting a lower end marriage, please summarize the reasons for previous marriage failures. Identify the root cause of the relationship breakdown and reflect on whether there are any inappropriate ways to handle it.
Only after experiencing the wrong choices can you finally understand what is most suitable for you. After understanding these, try asking yourself some serious questions, and you will get the closest true answer to your heart.
How to make promises
The failure of marriage makes you better understand what family responsibility is and what commitment is, which is much more difficult than what you say. Whether you are willing or not, you have to take responsibility for your own and someone else's life, and start considering the consequences of your words and actions.
Starting from now on, make promises and expectations that are within your ability, achievable, and reliable based on the proportion of work and family, the relationship between lovers and friends, the coordination between marital life and personal space, as well as the fit of lifestyle and hobbies. Congratulations, you are moving further towards maturity!
Facing Solitude Directly
The sense of loneliness and responsibility on your shoulders cannot be escaped, so we have to choose to face it and not choose a marriage because of your loneliness. Believing in one's own healing ability and the ability to live a better life is a life creed that must be followed in both the second marriage and the rest of life. For oneself, one must also live each day happily.
Summarize expectations for the next marriage
You can try asking yourself what kind of expectations you have after choosing your next marriage, which are all very practical and rational questions. For example, do you need to have a little baby as soon as possible? Does he also think so? How do you plan to spend your married life and take care of yourself several times a year? All of these should be planned and discussed with your significant other, striving to move forward reasonably according to your goals after marriage.
Have confidence
Perhaps your previous failed marriage has caused you to lose a lot of confidence. It's okay, in the next marriage, you need to have more confidence. Not only do you establish your own confidence, but also make him full of confidence and hope for you. After the actual experience of your last marriage, you have gained some valuable practical experience, which is a good foundation for building a happy marriage life.
Both of you need to be mentally prepared. Research has shown that the probability of success in a second marriage is higher than that in a first marriage. Anyway, for those of you who are courageously pursuing love, I wish you happiness.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
