Post Date December, 03 2023
Love is quite beautiful. So, do you know what you need to go through when you're in love? Many friends are not very clear about it. Yes, as long as you can successfully overcome these four stages in love, you can definitely enter the palace of marriage. Alright, let's learn about it together with the editor!!
Phase 1: Coexistence
This is a period of passionate love, always hoping to get tired of being together no matter when or where.
Phase 2: Anti dependency
One party wants to spend more time doing what they want to do, and then the other party will feel left out, always worrying and criticizing for small things.
Stage 3: Doubt
This is a continuation of the second stage, requiring more time for independence and autonomy. I always feel that I'm not good for myself anymore, I don't love myself as much as before.
Fourth stage: Symbiosis
At this point, a new way of getting along has taken shape, and you have become the closest people. You support each other and create your own life together. You will not be tied together, but will grow together. He (she) is like your relative. However, many people fail the second or third stage and choose to break up.
Thinking too much and being capricious
In fact, many things will be fine as long as they are well communicated, but thinking too much and being capricious is inevitable. It's not easy to meet the only one in the world, can you not give up easily. Have you noticed? You have nothing in common, your appearances are not the same, and your personalities are completely different, but you fall in love and get together. Day after day, year after year. Your eyes are a bit like his. His smile is actually a bit like yours. Your walking steps become similar. Your tone of voice is becoming more and more similar. You love to drink the same drink. Your catchphrases have become the same. You can always guess what the other person's next sentence is.
We will become the ones we love
Originally, we would become the people we love. You unconsciously made him break his bad habit of frowning. This change may have been unnoticed even by himself. He unconsciously makes you no longer careless in doing things. You almost couldn't recognize yourself. They will gradually become the ideal person of the other party unconsciously, and this change is definitely not intentional.
The longer two people spend together, the closer their temperament becomes. One day, you were surprised to find out how close you were to each other. Perhaps I will never encounter such feelings again. When you deeply love someone, you really lose yourself bit by bit. But why do you still feel happy. Perhaps it's because while you lose, you also earn.
Conclusion: Now that everyone knows how to maintain their love, love, like marriage, needs to be managed slowly. In order to have a happy life in the future, we must overcome various difficulties and hardships. This kind of love is the most beautiful, and it is also important to pay more attention to each other's psychology in daily life, take care of each other, and be happier!!
