What should women do if they are under high psychological pressure and want to have an affair

Most women's emotions are delicate and sensitive, easily falling into negative emotions, causing various psychological states such as depression. When psychological pressure is too high, it can have adverse effects on our physical and mental health, and even seriously affect our family and work. Therefore, many people also use various methods to release their stress and find ways to return their state to the right track. So, which methods are feasible?

Women are like water, and sensitivity is a major characteristic of women. Women enjoy the sweetness of love, and through love, we can experience the feeling of being valued and cared for. This is a gentle trap that women generally cannot escape, because no relationship can always be sweet and fresh. Therefore, extramarital affairs are definitely a big fog in our lives, seemingly dreamy and beautiful, but in reality, they cannot be targeted, Unable to root out our psychological stress.

Emotional women should learn to understand the development laws of everything, handle problems with a correct mindset, learn more and exercise more in daily life, maintain a positive attitude, cultivate one or two hobbies that enrich our spiritual field, and have their own circle of like-minded friends. In this way, our state of life will be maintained in a positive energy environment, and we will not want to avoid things, but rather actively and positively find solutions.

So, in daily life, we should be good at understanding ourselves, observing the situations, events, and situations that trigger negative emotions. When emotions arise, we should record our thoughts and feelings, understand how our internal belief system operates, and understand what blind spots we are prone to when considering problems.

Through continuous summary, reflection, and learning, when we encounter psychological pressure, we should not panic or be afraid. We should know that people's emotions and everything are constantly changing, and there are no obstacles that cannot be overcome. We should not take the pressure too seriously, but carefully understand who and what are causing us pressure? What kind of pressure does it bring us? What is the feeling of being under pressure? Why doesn't the same event confuse everyone when everything happens from within ourselves? So the key to the generation of emotions lies in our attitude towards things, which is determined by our thoughts.

The law of psychological stress generation is: events (characters) - generating emotions - accumulating stress - solving problems - releasing emotions - releasing stress. Once we understand this, we need to be firm in our hearts and gradually explore and accumulate the experience of overcoming negative emotions. As long as we have a memory of victory in our lives, we will no longer be helpless when facing the same problem the next time. We will break through psychological pressure again based on our first experience and become the masters of our own hearts!

For example, if the husband is a dull and passive type of man, it is difficult to feel the needs of his wife in life. However, the wife is a woman with rich emotions and dependence. Such women prefer spiritual communication and satisfaction, while the passive husband is not good at words and is good at expressing love through actions. Therefore, the wife's long-term feeling is that the husband cannot give the love he wants, and she is about to suffocate in this family, I want to escape this painful life, and even want to have an affair, divorce, and so on. Actually, you need to understand that what causes you to have an affair at this time is often not true love. As women, we don't choose to have an affair, but we need to learn to look at the problem from a different perspective. We want our husband to pay close attention to and even talk sweetly, which is nothing more than confirming his love for us. We need him to love and love me. So, whether he loves me or not is the key to the problem, and there are many forms of love, But the essence of love must be true and not illusory. So as long as we can see his love actions, expressions, and contributions towards us from his unspoken husband, we must understand gratitude and be moved. Naturally, we will not stick to him and love me the way I want him to.