Not many people can be certain that their marriage is going smoothly, because emotions are always influenced by various factors. In marriage, extramarital affairs are a common occurrence. So, what attitude should we approach this issue with? Let's take a look at the explanation below.
Is an affair a "betrayal" or a "reminder"?
The meaning of marriage originally lies in absolute trust and interdependence between each other. Just like a pair of conjoined sisters, each exerting all their strengths, making up for each other's shortcomings, coping with life together, and coping with life - when we step onto the red carpet of marriage, most of us think so. This exposes us to an unguarded weakness. When an affair comes, many people cannot face the betrayal of the "conjoined sisters" and will engage in a series of crazy actions.
Open one eye, plant a cowpox in your emotional life, and increase your immunity. In this way, once something happens, they cannot harm our belief in life and confidence in survival. An affair may not necessarily be a true betrayal, but it is a reminder, a malicious reminder. It is telling your marriage that you have caught a cold, and you need to take careful care and listen, because marriage, like humans, can also get sick.
You see best when you have an affair!
Marriage crisis is not just a misfortune that you are the only one to encounter. With the changes of times, extramarital affairs have greatly increased compared to before, and have become a more serious family problem that makes society uneasy - with this psychological preparation, it is easy to see it through; When you learn that the other party has had an affair, people who have never been mentally prepared are likely to be in agony. If you occasionally exhibit abnormal behavior, do not be ashamed of it. This is a normal reaction, just as emotional imbalance requires crying to vent.