As the saying goes, beating people without beating their faces, swearing without exposing their faults. This sentence is enough to explain everything. Women must take good care of themselves, especially in front of their husbands. Don't say that his mother is so bad or so bad, which can easily cause his disgust! So, what should smart women do? Interested friends can follow the editor to learn about it!!
1、 Don't criticize his mother in front of him
Whose mother doesn't protect her, and whose son doesn't hurt her? The biggest contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not differences of opinion on trivial matters, but competing for favor in front of men. Mothers want their sons to be good to them, and daughters-in-law want their husbands to take more care of their feelings. For this reason, mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law are like rivals in love, secretly competing for favor. "A clever daughter-in-law will coax her mother-in-law, while a clumsy daughter-in-law will only speak to her husband about his mother's various faults.".
2、 Don't openly discuss his bad habits
Everyone is not perfect, and inevitably there are some bad habits. For men's bad habits, women can find time to talk to their husbands alone, but do not disclose their bad habits to the public, let alone discuss them in front of their parents-in-law and siblings, and do not let your husband become a "target of criticism.".
3、 Don't excite him with the merits of other men
Everyone likes to compare, especially women, who intentionally or unintentionally use the advantages of other opposite sex to stimulate their husbands' neglect of life. "The original intention of a woman is not to show off the good qualities of other men, but rather to hope that her husband can be more excellent. Often, the result is that men will strike back at a woman like this: 'If she is good, why don't you just divorce me and live with her?'"
4、 Don't sneer when he steals at beautiful women
"It is an instinct for a man to accompany a woman while shopping, and to take more glances at a beautiful woman is not an indication of a man's flirtatiousness.". At this time, women should not be weird, let alone upset the vinegar jar and argue with men. Otherwise, it will make a man feel that you are making trouble, making a fuss, or even exploiting his freedom. Being so careful can suffocate a man a bit.