Post Date December, 03 2023
Netizens confide:
My husband and mistress have been together for three years, and I only learned about it six months ago. Xiao San is an employee in her husband's factory. He said that her job requires her and she cannot leave. After I had a child, my husband said my stomach was ugly! I know it's not easy for me and the child to leave him now. If you don't leave and worry that he won't give your child living expenses now, the third child is getting better and better dressed. The third child is only 18 years old, and even if I were present, the third child would flirt with him. What should I do?
reply:
Firstly, I don't understand what you mean by saying that your husband doesn't provide living expenses for your children. Aren't you divorced now? Do you care about the expenses of taking care of your children while you work hard at home? This shouldn't be!
Now, your husband has turned his attention to that 18-year-old junior. It's normal for him to buy things for her to wear. Men are willing to invest in this aspect, but their goal is to ensure that the red flag at home does not fall and the colorful flags outside the house float, in order to satisfy a man's "conquering desire" and vanity. Especially if your husband is a factory owner with a certain amount of power and money in his hands, such a man is easy to attract bees and attract butterflies, and also easy to be fond of the new and dislike the old.
There is no way, if you marry such a man, there are only two ways, or use your wisdom and charm to attract your husband and prevent her from being taken over by the mistress; Or open one eye and close one eye and let her husband Hu do it until he has enough fun. It depends on how you choose. Do you want to maintain the dignity of your relationship or protect the interests of your marriage?
Now, it seems that you are powerless. Even though you are aware of their misconduct, you can only watch anxiously. It seems that you lack the courage to compete with Xiao San. Xiao San flirts with your husband in front of you, indicating that their relationship has indeed developed exceptionally well, and they clearly do not take you seriously. I think there is no need for you to feel guilty or discouraged for such a young mistress. You should muster the courage to face it. I guarantee that you will ultimately win, because for an 18 year old mistress, she doesn't have such deep intentions. It could be due to a momentary impulse, a longing for love, or even an immature admiration for your husband, unable to resist his sweet words and temptations, and unable to extricate herself at the moment. So, as she gradually matures, she may wake up on her own. At this point, you should find an opportunity to make friends with her instead of treating her as a rival. You should talk to her more, care for her like a sister, slowly influence her, and penetrate your pain and helplessness into her, inspiring her compassion and compassion. Women are all compassionate, and it depends on your wisdom and patience to open up the stone with sincerity. Additionally, your husband is a businessman and I believe he is very shrewd. It is impossible for him to be foolish enough to develop a romantic relationship with that mistress. He just wants to have her for a long time, so he will not easily divorce you. Because divorce will involve property division, you will divide half of his property.
So, it is recommended that you be prepared to engage in a long-lasting battle with them. Firstly, you should strive to enhance your charm, improve your beauty, dress up, and make yourself look beautiful. Secondly, you should not spend all day wandering around your children, leaving them to the elderly for help and care, or letting your husband spend money to hire a nanny. Then, you should go to work to earn money, enter the workplace, and make your husband feel that you are not a weak woman who relies on him everywhere, If a woman becomes stronger, she will no longer dare to underestimate you, and even feel a sense of crisis and find you attractive. Even if you really get to the day of divorce, you don't have to worry about financial and independence issues anymore.
