What should I do if my husband is addicted to the football game and affects the relationship between husband and wife

My husband is a fan and must watch every game. He and I have been married for more than 10 years, and the most talked about is football. The World Cup football match lasted nearly a month, and it was really difficult for him. He tried to ask the leader for leave to "recuperate at home", and used his brains to buy back dozens of packages of fast food and drinks. A group of fans gathered and stared at the TV all the time. Influenced by him, I also watch the ball, but I am not as enthusiastic and persistent as he is. I went to and from work as usual and did housework, while he did nothing.

When he doesn't watch the ball, he is listless all day long, he doesn't care about the housework, and he is even more inattentive to me. Seeing the tense situation on the court, he desperately shouted "Come on! Come on! Come on!", which made me very tired. He hasn't returned home since the Spring Festival this year, and our relationship is in a "cold war state". In fact, what I want to say is that if he can focus on the marriage relationship as he does on the ball game, our husband and wife will have a much better life. Excuse me, is my idea correct? How can we let our husbands cheer for our marriage?

Ms. Zheng:

I think football fans, cheering for the team and "cheering for marriage" are two different things. After all, the "World Cup" is only held once every four years, and marriage is in progress all the time, and it will last forever. Couples are quietly cheering for their marriage every day, without shouting. If you want to cheer for marriage and shout every day, are you tired? No matter how energetic the man is, he will cry out.

In fact, life needs refueling, career needs refueling, love needs refueling, and marriage needs refueling. As long as everyone can refuel in different ways according to different needs, they can enjoy all kinds of fun including watching the ball. You should do the same yourself, right?

Keep refueling in life, and life will be more wonderful; Keep working hard and your performance will be better; We will continue to refuel in the process of entrepreneurship, and our business will prosper; Keep fueling in love, and the relationship between husband and wife will last forever; Keep fueling in marriage, and family life will be happy.

You expect your husband to "cheer for marriage", which is poetic and romantic. However, how to make him volunteer to "cheer for marriage" depends on how you and your husband develop their feelings together. The relationship between husband and wife can't be as intense and dangerous as that of a ball game. The climax is repeated. Both husband and wife experience harmony and happiness in the quiet mutual care, understanding, reception and sharing.

Refueling for marriage is not in words, but in action. Your understanding and support of your husband's interest in watching the ball is a manifestation of "cheering". Therefore, you should change the boredom of your husband's obsession with the ball game and see how your husband "cheers" for your relationship. Is it worthwhile for both sides to reflect on the "cold war" over such a small matter?