What should I do if I have a one-night stand after drinking with my boss on a business trip

During a business trip of nearly 20 days, I had a relationship with my boss that shouldn't have happened when I drank too much. That is to say, one night stand. After waking up, I was very regretful. He went back to his room, and we all thought nothing had happened in the future. But most of the time, I felt that there was something different in his eyes when he looked at me. I was very afraid of going on business together in the future. Sometimes I have some differences myself. Alas, how to deal with it? I hope you can give me some suggestions! I work very well in this company, and have a good relationship with my colleagues. I really don't want to leave the company because of this. I don't like him anyway. But I just think, "Will a man think once and ten times are the same". What else do you want to happen as a boss?

I really don't like him. It happened in a half-awake state. I hate him a little. I'm afraid he will continue to pester me. We are all adults. I hope we can just pretend that nothing happened. What should I do?

reply:

Anyway, you have a relationship with your boss that shouldn't have happened. You have to admit that you have a frivolous side. It doesn't matter if you are confused for a while. If you can turn back in time, you will inevitably make mistakes when you are young. You should pay attention to avoid it in the future. But if you want to stay in this company, I don't think it is appropriate. Don't you feel awkward and embarrassed when you look down and see your boss every day? And this kind of thing can easily spread to other colleagues, which will inevitably lead to rumors in the future. In addition, if you are arranged to travel together again, do you think that you will not continue to cross the line?

A man is an animal that thinks in the lower part of his body. Once he gets it, he will have the possibility to continue to ask for and entangle, because he will feel that you are "casual" and easy to use, so how can he let it go easily. Many things are not based on your own will. You think it happens when it happens, and then it doesn't happen, but others may not think so like you. I hope you can understand the reason why the tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop.

Therefore, it is recommended that you do not work in this company as much as possible. If you really do not want to leave this company, ask for a department change to try to reduce contact and contact with this boss.