What should I do if I actively pursue my female colleague and leave her in bed so that I can't forget

Reader's Letter:

May I ask you something? I fell in love with a colleague at work two years ago, and she chased me after me. Over the past year, she treated me very well. However, later on, I became indifferent to her. Later, she found out that I was chatting with other women online, and she was very angry. However, we were still very good. However, in the past year, she gradually became distant from me, often asking for money, and sometimes speaking very harshly, I feel like a different person. I want to give up on her, but I can't forget her every time, especially when she can be put in bed and I really like it. So I'm very confused and don't know how to get over it. Do you think she doesn't love me anymore?

reply:

Hello, before asking if someone loves you, why don't you first ask yourself if you truly love them again? Did you cherish the fact that they lowered their stance and actively pursued you back then? Your indifferent attitude towards others and chatting with other women online can leave a lasting blow and hurt in your memory, as long as you are not a fool. Now that she's starting to distance herself from you and her attitude towards you has changed significantly, she definitely doesn't love you anymore. Is that enough? Now that you are being ignored by others, you feel uncomfortable and reluctant to part with them. You have forgotten how you were when you were so cold to them. Since that's the case, let it be, no matter what, you have to face it. After loving for a long time, what you still miss in the end is nothing more than the things on the bed. If your love only stays in the love between two men and women, then there is no need to be so painful and entangled, because without this one, you will soon find the next one. The woman who can be left open in the bed is easy to find, and the most difficult to meet the other half, It's someone whose soul and body are equally unforgettable.