Sexual Health
What should girls pay attention to on their first night of marriage? Four precautions for newlywed girls on their first night
How to have a good first night is a concern for every newlywed girl. Some people say that having sex for the first and first few times on the wedding night is very important. If it doesn't go well, it can affect the sexual life between couples in the future and affect their relationship. It is certainly great to have a satisfying sexual life during the first and early stages of marriage. But there are also those who are not very satisfied with their lives, because newlyweds often lack sexual knowledge and are prone to nervousness, shyness, and fear when they first come into contact. It is normal for them to have a bad sexual life. However, it's best to have a good wedding night. Please pay attention to the following points:
1. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen
After the hymen ruptures, some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding should be wiped with sterile gauze or cotton wool. It is best to have intercourse every 2-3 days to prevent wound inflammation. If the hymen ruptures and bleeds a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical advice.
Reminder: Sometimes because the hymen of the woman is thick or the hymen hole is too small, or the man's sexual intercourse is rough, more bleeding may occur after hymen tears. In the most serious cases, not only the hymen has a large fissure, but also the labia minora wall is torn, leading to massive bleeding.
2. Treating premature ejaculation correctly
During first sexual intercourse, the male partner may experience premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual failure. You should forgive this situation, it is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and experience after marriage, both parties cooperate in a tacit manner and will quickly return to normal.
3. Pay attention to external genital hygiene
On your wedding night, both you and your husband need to wash the external genitals with warm water and neutral soap essence. As the wedding purchases goods and treats relatives and friends, the newlyweds are busy and tired. Men's smegma and women's vaginal secretions increase. If not cleaned, it is very unsanitary, which will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.
4. Take proper contraceptive measures
If both men and women do not want to have children immediately and do not take birth control pills, both couples have concerns, and the woman is even more afraid of pregnancy, so their thoughts cannot be highly focused, which can affect their sexual life. If the woman takes the contraceptive pill in a timely manner, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, focus, and sexual life will achieve satisfactory results.
5. Close cooperation and mutual consideration