Sexual Health
What should couples pay attention to when achieving a happy and coordinated sexual life? Understand
Sexual activity is an important component of marital life. Harmonious sexual life is a natural physiological need for both men and women, and it is a common desire of both spouses. Both parties have the obligation to cooperate closely and the right to jointly satisfy it. In the process of sexual activity, there are important psychological factors from the stimulation of sexual excitement to emotional communication, from the physical and mental engagement of both parties to achieving orgasm together.
As long as one party does not understand sexual knowledge or adopts a negative attitude, both parties cannot achieve emotional harmony. Especially for women, the role of sexual psychology has a significant impact, and men must understand this characteristic in order to play a positive role in their marital life.
Many women are afraid that the other party will underestimate them, desperately suppressing their true reactions and emotions, and showing self-respect and aloofness. Some women have a strong conservative mindset, believing that sexual activity must fulfill obligations and have a negative and passive attitude. The shame, reserve, fear, and negativity of women's talents are resistance to stimulating sexual excitement. It is unrealistic for them to consciously break free from these psychological constraints, especially for a few women who have weak sexual desire before marriage, making it difficult to get rid of this dilemma. The old belief that women should be completely passive in sexual life has been overturned by modern scientific research. It has been proven that women need to learn to be positive in their sexual life, satisfy their own sexual pleasure, and satisfy both parties.
The sexual response characteristics of men determine their strong libido, which can be stimulated at any time and rapidly develop to a level of complete excitement. Women only have terror. So far, women have developed into low libido, and some women have developed from reserved attitudes to confrontational psychology, deliberately and coldly refusing male demands and playing with each other's emotions. This actually harms men's self-esteem, leading to a rise in boredom from cleaning up sexual life, coupled with anxiety and anger, which may develop into dysfunction such as erectile dysfunction. All of these planted the root of the disaster, ultimately leading to the breakdown of the couple's relationship and the breakdown of the family.
In order to achieve a happy and harmonious sexual life, both parties should pay attention to sexual desire and impulsiveness, and not force. Both parties should pay attention and not be distracted in dealing with it. The sexual excitement and excitement of both parties should be mutually transmitted and excited. Including facial expressions, posture, language, intonation, etc. Lovers like to understand each other, make them happy, and provide them with everything they need. Love requires time, sincerity, and quick emotional communication. Only by fully understanding sexual knowledge on the basis of understanding and respect can a couple's life be harmonious and happy.
It is worth noting that the demands and reactions of both men and women towards sexual life have age characteristics. Understanding these characteristics and understanding each other are also factors that contribute to a harmonious sexual life. The gender gap is seen in terms of age.
1. 20-30 years old: Men are in the peak period of sexual activity, excited quickly, sexy, and easily re excited after orgasm. Women are in a shy and restrained psychological state, unable to release emotionally. Men have stronger libido than women.
2. 31-40 years old: Male function begins to decline, but control ability increases, which can better meet women's sexual needs. Women begin to break through psychological barriers, understand their bodies, and know how to satisfy orgasms.
3. 41-50 years old: Male sexual desire decreases, energy is limited, sexual excitement is slow, and reaching peak requires more stimulation. However, with more experience, consideration, and warmth to meet women's sexual needs. Women's sexual desire increases and their sexual needs reach their peak. The psychological repression and obstacles were swept away, and there was no longer deliberate reserve. After entering menopause, the vagina becomes dry and requires the use of lubricants. This decade has been an uncoordinated stage of sexual activity. After middle age, women's sexual desire can surpass that of men. Young couples reach 1/8-1/5 in the West.
4. 51-60 years old: Both sexual partners demand harmony. Women's demands are starting to decrease.
5. 61-70 years old: Both parties' functions are deteriorating, but the sexual life of romantic couples continues. A survey shows that over 60% of partners still adhere to regular rooms. Older women still have sexual desire, and excessive suppression is not conducive to health. Maintaining sexual activity naturally can help them spend their later years more comfortably.
6. Over 71 years old: The report shows that one in ten couples still have regular sexual activity.
In short, maintaining a happy sexual life is definitely beneficial for the health of couples. According to foreign surveys, women who are separated or divorced are more likely to contract diseases than those who are happily married because of their low immune system and poor health of their ex husband. A survey shows that some people still maintain marital relationships, but those with poor relationships often have poorer immune systems than those who have separated or divorced. A happy marriage and harmonious sexual life are important for health.