Post Date December, 03 2023
If you come out to mess around, you always have to pay it back. Once your husband has an affair, women should be even more exciting! So, you must calm down and exchange time for everything!
Q: What should I do if my husband doesn't come home at night?
Answer: You don't have to ask, don't worry. He is an adult with the ability to control his own behavior. As long as he doesn't have the bad habit of drunk driving, I believe he will have a warm place to go tonight.
Q: What should I do if he sleeps with another woman?
Answer: The same sentence: You don't have to ask, don't worry. The Marriage Law does not deprive married individuals of the right to sleep with the opposite sex outside of marriage. It is feasible if not prohibited by law. As long as he is not a party member or leading cadre, and you have no legal or policy basis, you can investigate whether he slept with other women.
Q: But sleeping with my husband and other women would hurt me. I would be very painful and angry!
Answer: Your pain and anger are all your faults. Because you see your husband as your personal wealth and do not allow others to share it, so you suffer; Because you don't have the most attraction to make him think you're better than anyone else in the world, his husband has to find another woman to make up for it, and as a result, he snubs you, so you're angry.
Q: What should I do with my husband's infidelity?
Answer: The same sentence: You don't have to ask, don't worry. Or add another sentence: You don't have to suffer or be angry at all. It's like nothing happened.
Q: But I can't do it.
Answer: If you can't do it, it means you have lost yourself.
Q: What do you mean by that?
Answer: Husband is not everything in your life, you are everything. If your husband has an affair, you don't want to eat, drink, or live. Do you still have yourself?
Q: So what should I do?
Answer: It's simple: eat whatever you want, wear whatever you want, play whatever you want, and don't delay anything. You can even have your emotional support. In short, live a more exciting life, because you were not born for him, not for him.
Q: But does marriage still make sense in this way?
Answer: Of course it makes sense. Because the meaning of marriage has never been a fixed constant, the meaning of marriage is completely different at different stages of life.
Q: How do you understand?
Answer: Marriage has at least four different meanings at different stages of life: one is process meaning, and people must fulfill the process of "getting married" at a certain age. The second is the significance of childbirth, in order to have a legitimate offspring by blood, you have to get married; Thirdly, the meaning of "common economy" is that only by getting married can you quickly enhance your economic dominance in this society; The fourth is the significance of "living together for a long time", which only becomes apparent when the old husband and wife are interdependent.
Q: What does it have to do with my husband's affair when you talk about these meanings?
Answer: It really matters. As long as your husband does not request a divorce due to extramarital affairs, your marriage has the prospect of "sustainable development"; The four important meanings of marriage exist in your marriage. What else do you need to suffer from or be angry about?
Q: But he treats that woman better than me, he often accompanies her at night!
Answer: That's temporary. He can't accompany her for a lifetime, he can't have an affair for a lifetime! As long as he does not propose a divorce to you, it means that he has already stored you in his bones, indicating that he still regards you as his final destination in life and you as his home.
Q: Isn't my wife just a name in name?
Answer: Don't be so scary. If there is really "death", you will only lose a share of happiness in bed. According to the official concept of marriage, "sexual pleasure" is unrelated to marriage. So, in terms of the practical significance of marriage, you have lost nothing.
Q: But I also have that kind of request. He gave it to other women, how could I not be in pain!
Answer: This is your mistake. Did your husband stop you? Does the law prohibit you? Has public opinion exposed you? So, you can do whatever you want!
And as long as you do yourself well, don't go out without makeup every day, don't change into new clothes every day, and don't go out without confidence every day.
Famous writer Eileen Chang once said, "A man chooses a woman not because of her inner beauty, but because of the beautiful feeling that this woman's external image brings to him
