After getting married, many women complain that their men have changed. They are either busy with work or playing games every day, and even on weekends, they won't accompany them like they did when they were in love. They won't even call themselves drunk. If your man experiences this situation, don't be busy arguing with him first. Think about why men are like this, why men are unwilling to do these things with themselves, and then find a solution.
Now, let's take a look at which few things are happening together!
Shopping during holidays
It seems to be a woman's nature to like shopping, even if she doesn't buy anything, it is a very happy thing. However, for the vast majority of men, it is suffering and torment. Scientific research has shown that when men accompany women shopping, their blood pressure suddenly increases, causing chest tightness and difficulty breathing. From this, it can be seen that accompanying women shopping is a killing agent for men on the road of love. Holidays were supposed to be such wonderful times, but they were wasted on meaningless bargaining. They were thirsty, tired, and anxious, often wandering around all day without buying anything.
Let's talk about sex together
Many people are starting to wonder, isn't sex a favorite thing for men to talk about? Why don't men like to chat with their women? Who does he want to talk to? In fact, men don't want to talk about sex with their wives, but when it comes to this issue, women are always evasive and hesitant, which makes men very depressed. So, men will stop talking about this topic. If you want to change this situation, you can be generous and chat with your man about sex. You can also proactively ask the man if he wants to use TARA or ORA tonight, and he will be very happy!
Drinking with women
Why don't men like to drink with their women? This is mainly because when women are around, men can't let go, and drinking with their friends is a way to enjoy and relieve stress. However, there are many women who do not understand this point. Every time they drink with friends, they always have to drink with them, unwilling to let them be with some good friends, always thinking that it is not good for men to be together. So the woman followed, and the man was no longer free, and some words that could be spoken between men were difficult to say. There are even some women who try to uncover some secrets from the past, trying to embarrass men.
Watching Korean dramas together
For many men, Korean dramas are a nightmare, with many unrealistic scenes that they cannot cope with. However, women like to watch Korean dramas. The expression of crying and laughing when women watch them is really scary, and what's even more frightening is that they keep asking, "If you were him, would you treat that woman the same way? If we get old, would you still treat me well?" "Do you love me?" "If I want to be like the female lead, would you still want me?"... These boring questions are hard to avoid, but, It's not enough not to answer, but to answer it raises more questions.
Talking about Parents Together
Talking about each other's parents is also a trigger for arguments, but women always bring the topic up to this point and emphasize that their parents are better than each other's parents. However, men can make concessions on many issues, but they will persist to the end when it comes to their parents. As a woman, father-in-law and mother-in-law are not their biological parents after all. It is difficult to say how good it is to treat them intentionally, but in practice, it is also a difficult task. So, women should try to avoid raising parental issues as much as possible, and it depends on the timing, otherwise it may only be difficult to please.
After reading the above introduction, I understand that men don't like to do things with women. At this point, women should take action and let men change their mindset.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)