1 Keyword: confession rejected
Q: # Crow loves to answer questions # I have known a girl for a month and a half, and she will call and chat for an hour or two every night. Usually, she will also take the initiative to chat with me. She will talk about her future life from time to time, and she will imagine our life after marriage if she says that our children will be beautiful in the future. I think she likes me, but there are other boys chasing her and often go out with others to see a movie or something. The other day I asked her to be my girlfriend. She said she would give her three days, and three days later told me that we were not suitable. Then I didn't answer the phone. The crow was big. Where did I have a problem? How can I recover it?
A: Confessing death is normal. You meet an ambiguous bitch. Believe it or not, she basically chats with other men in the same way. Once you break the balance, the ambiguous bitch will make a choice - is it worth letting her give up all the male resources around her and stay with you.
Also, when intercepting, don't give the other party a chance to breathe. For example, my sister said that she would give her three days. In fact, she was not thinking about whether to stay with you for three days, but about who to make up for her empty window from after clearing the line with you. In other words, which spare tire to replace you. As for recovery, I don't recommend it, but if you really want to recover, I suggest you try freezing.
2 Key words: never forget your ex-girlfriend
Q: # Crow loves to answer questions #+I just broke up with my ex-girlfriend. I am now studying in a new school, but now I feel that I can't forget my ex-girlfriend. I have to compare other girls with my ex-girlfriend, and I have the impulse to get back together. But I feel that my impulse is still due to the emptiness, loneliness and cold now... and now I see a good girl and want to quickly become a boyfriend or a py relationship with her, I am also worried about exposing too many needs, and I dare not chat with women face to face. I feel very distressed about this. I hope the crow teacher can help me solve this problem and let me out of this strange circle. Thank you
A: Yes, the process of picking up girls is an anti-human road. The more anxious you are to get girls, the more you will be, and the more you will have to feel the need. As we all know, the stronger the need, the harder it is to get girls, and because there are no girls, you will be even more scarce. In this case, what you need to do is cultivate your mind. You must calm your heart first. If you can't calm down, the sense of scarcity will multiply in your heart, and eventually make you a loser. As for your ex-girlfriend, it has a lot to do with the sense of need. Because you have no sister around you, you will recall all the benefits of your ex-girlfriend. But I need to remind you that it is often more difficult to repair a relationship than to rebuild it.
3 Key words: expose needs to express
Q: # Crows love to answer questions # The second time I wrote, Dada, I attracted a girl a while ago, and there were many ioi, so I naively thought the time was ripe and went to confess. But she refused, said she didn't need a boyfriend, so she confessed to death... But now she will also take the initiative to chat with me and comment on my circle of friends, but how to upgrade the relationship counterattack?
A: The question of confessing death is really a cliche. Your confessing death can still be saved. It's really hard to save someone who has deleted contact information from each other. First of all, you should analyze the pros and cons of both parties: she has a good feeling for you, but because of your confession, her framework has been strengthened. Now that your sense of need has been exposed, you must do a good job of mending the gap. You can no longer continue to expose the sense of need, and automatically filter out the confession that day, as if it had not happened. Then, on the basis of daily high-value attraction, start to feel connected, that is, secure, so that she can slowly feel that she needs you, and then try to intercept.
4 Key words; Lack of security
Q: # Crows love to answer questions # I now have a girl I like very much, but she is 4 years older than me, and she is a foreign girl. At first, it was online chat, but later she took the initiative to meet and exchange language with each other, so that we met almost every other week, but every time she came out, she would bring another sister, and she also wanted me to bring my friend. Sometimes it's very good to talk out of an appointment, and she doesn't have a boyfriend, because she said that let me introduce her boyfriend, which I figured out, but she didn't like it. Another meal, she called another friend of hers, and I boasted a few words. Later, she said that she was angry, and I dare not say anything. Later, when we met, I was always very introverted and the atmosphere was also very awkward. Until later, I couldn't help confessing that she refused me tactfully. I just want to meet her now. Should I take the initiative or just give up.
A: Give you three dry goods for GRT, so that you can correctly understand the causes and consequences of your affair: 1. When your sister takes a female partner every time she goes to an appointment, you are right. You need to "bubble" her female partner, of course not really let you bubble. What you need is to make your sister feel that taking a female partner to an appointment is likely to be robbed of her man by the female partner, and she will not bring her female partner next time; 2. After you expressed interest in her girlfriend, the sister was angry. At this time, you need to ask back and ask her kindly: What is our relationship? Instead of feeling that you have done something wrong, and then limitless guilt; 3. Confession is bound to die, and the reason is not explained