1、 A woman who knows how to seek common ground and keep small differences.
After marriage, when two people with different personalities live together, their living habits, temperament, and hobbies may vary. "If you are too picky and have to change the other person to meet your own standards, it is likely to cause dissatisfaction and disgust to the other person: Is this how I am? Is it still me to change and change? Is it wise to seek common ground in major matters and put aside differences in minor matters?".
2、 A relatively independent woman.
If you think that you have married a husband, you will become a young grandmother with high spirits, and you will be lazy and lazy; Or openly treating your husband as your long-term free meal ticket, which is a dangerous idea. Once you are completely dependent on your husband financially, marriage can easily turn sour. A woman can make less money, but she must also be able to support herself. Even if you want to consider becoming a full-time mother, you should think twice. Although we know that full-time mothers actually pay a lot, the lack of actual economic income makes the credit seem pale. Unless your husband fully supports you, or you have a solid family background, or there is really no way to do so for other reasons, don't quit your job easily. The life of a full-time wife has been going on for a long time, and because she has no income, she inevitably lacks some confidence. Even if my husband doesn't look down on me, my occasional jitters will follow
3、 A woman who remains confident in herself.
A confident woman is a charm in itself. If you can't recognize yourself, how can you make others recognize that self-confidence is not only based on appearance, but also needs connotation, cultivation, and moral integrity. A woman with elegant manners has more charm than a beautiful woman, and a woman with gentle manners is more acceptable than a woman with spicy and vigorous manners. Improving one's self cultivation may be a subject that every married woman cannot stop studying.
4、 A woman who knows how to love others, but also loves herself.
Married women, who hold multiple positions, also have responsibilities on their shoulders, and should cherish themselves even more. When a married woman is managing household affairs, it is natural for her to love her husband and family, and she cannot forget herself. Cherishing oneself is actually cherishing the family. There is no doubt about the importance of women in a family, and it is not too much to compare a woman to a person at the helm. "The people in front are struggling to paddle, and the people in the rear are firmly steering, so that they can work together to steer the boat smoothly to its destination.".
5、 A woman who is not confused about major matters and does not care about minor matters.
A family always has its own problems. It is best not to be too fussy and fussy about trivial matters. If disputes often arise between couples due to trivial matters, not only can the relationship not increase over time, but it can also lead to the disappearance of love and the cooling of family relationships. If complaints and nagging often reverberate in our ears, how can we be happy.
6、 A woman with a certain ability to keep a family.
If you want to manage your own family well, you will feel powerless without a certain sense of housekeeping skills. Women need to learn to be a proper "butler". Women often play a very important role in the healthy and steady development of the family. The perfect combination of husband and wife's two swords together can only be attributed to the divine providence; But it seems much easier for couples to learn from each other. After marriage, a woman should not only learn some things about managing her family, so that she can be happy and able to handle all aspects of her family with ease, avoiding burnout and mental emaciation.
7、 A woman who can still maintain her interests.
After marriage, a woman should still be able to maintain herself and must not become a victim of the family. If you don't have your own time interests, hobbies, entertainment, and so on, except for your family, husband, and children, it's very easy to feel frustrated and depressed if you have some minor disappointments from your family. After marriage, a woman should maintain one or two hobbies, have an independent spiritual garden in her spare time, and have a friend space of her own in real life.
A woman who has a happy marriage is not necessarily a very intelligent woman. But a woman who lives with a muddled mindset will only be happier and farther away from herself.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)