Post Date December, 03 2023
What kind of mentality do men and women have in extramarital love? Next, our editor will give you a detailed introduction.
It is obvious to all that the divorce rate in China has risen sharply in recent years. Scholars from all sides have different views on the causes of extramarital affairs, but most tend to think that those who have extramarital affairs must have one of the following ten symptoms.
1、 Compensatory psychology
Some people take the initiative to find a third party or are willing to accept compensation from a third party to form extramarital love because they are separated and lonely, or because one of them has physical defects and cannot be satisfied physically, or because their relationship is not harmonious. In fact, sex life is not the whole content of husband and wife's life. As long as the couple strengthen contact, communicate more emotionally, and miss each other in the heart, life is still full, and there is no need to compensate.
2、 Ungrateful psychology
Some lovers eventually fail to become family members, and both parties have their own families, or the other party still secretly loves the other party when they don't want to get married after one party gets married. When one party has difficulties in life or the husband and wife are not in harmony, the other party feels that they still owe the other party's love, so the other party takes the initiative to embrace the old lover, and the old love revives, resulting in extramarital love.
In fact, all lovers may not become family members. Now that both parties have married or the other party has married, they should face the reality and cherish their feelings. When the other party has difficulties in life or their feelings are not harmonious, using extramarital love to repay the other party's feelings is not so much to help the other party as to damage the other party, which is of no avail.
3、 Avaricious mentality
Some people are greedy for each other's money, regardless of their personality, and voluntarily commit themselves to each other in exchange for a few coppers, thus forming an extramarital love. In fact, personality is priceless, and money is extramarital. More is more, less is less. Why exchange priceless treasure for a few coppers? In addition, those who have money should also avoid, since the other party is greedy for your money, why pay the truth for the other party and have love.
4、 Physiognomy psychology
Some people actively show their love because of their desire for the beauty of the woman or the body of the man, resulting in extramarital love. In fact, beauty in appearance will naturally disappear with age. Only the beauty in heart is eternal. Like wine, the longer it lasts, the more mellow it becomes.
Therefore, the most important thing is to be good at finding the flash point of your spouse and give yourself a piece of true love, so that beauty will naturally appear in the eyes of your lover.
5、 Gratitude psychology
Some people get help from each other because they have difficulties in life, or because their husband has been away for a long time, and their family has been taken care of by each other for a long time, so they have no choice but to give up their bodies, resulting in extramarital love.
In fact, since the other party sincerely helps you, it doesn't want to repay you. The other party is kind to you. Just remember it in your heart. Why give up your body? If it affects the other party's family, it is not good intentions to do bad things.
6、 Retaliatory psychology
Some couples do not listen to persuasion because one party has an affair, and the other party actively seeks a third party in order to retaliate against the other party, resulting in an extramarital affair. In fact, since it is wrong to know that the other party has an affair, why do you look for a third party?
