When there is a crisis in your marriage, you are walking on thin ice and cautious, but you don't know if you can turn it around. How can you save your marriage when there is a crisis? Firstly, it is necessary to know oneself and the enemy, evaluate the probability of recovery, in order to firmly establish the goal and prevent futile efforts from getting deeper and deeper. Let's take a look at what kind of marriage can be saved?
The other party can make some concessions for themselves
To save your marriage, you need to know the other party's attitude towards your marriage. If the other party is willing to make appropriate concessions for you and can adjust their behavior, then it indicates that the other party still has this family in their hearts and hopes that your life can be better. Many people consider the other person's personality before looking for a partner, either looking for complementary or like-minded individuals, but regardless of which type, they hope that the other person can treat them very friendly. If both spouses can achieve two words: "endure, let," then there will be peace in the family. When the other party is willing to make concessions for themselves, it indicates that they are also reflecting on their own behavior and considering their feelings. Therefore, some conflicts in marriage can even elevate each other's emotions.
2. The other party cheated just for the sake of fresh excitement
In a marriage, when one party has an affair, it is often because the other party is visually fatigued, or they want to find new stimuli outside, or because their unchanging life makes them feel uninteresting. Suddenly, someone can stimulate their excitement and desire, which makes it easy to cheat. But many cheaters start feeling guilty and regretful after cheating. Because that kind of anxious life, although exciting, is often mixed with a sense of conscience, and one may feel sorry for their partner. In this situation, one often sincerely apologizes to the other half because both parties have a romantic foundation, and such a marriage can still be redeemed. After all, who in the world can be blameless? Husband and wife are one, forgiving each other is also forgiving oneself.
3. The other party's infidelity is just a play and they have children of their own
Many cheaters themselves do not have the idea of cheating, but due to the influence of their environment or some special circumstances, such as improper drinking, a one-time incident occurs. I never did it again afterwards, or I regret it very much. Many cheaters do not want to divorce their significant other at this time, they only hope that this matter will pass from now on and never mention it again. In addition, if the derailer and their partner have children, both parties will care about the child's mood and future, and they will not easily divorce. Even if there is a conflict, they will still consider the child, and such a marriage can be saved. After all, children are the common wealth of two people, and for the sake of children, there is still a foundation for love between the two. If divorced, the harm to children is also significant.
The above is the question of what kind of marriage can be saved for this article. If there are all the above points, I believe that with your efforts to save it, everything will eventually be okay. For marital crises, many people get divorced if they can't handle them well. So how can we resolve the emotional crisis in marriage? Actually, many marriages are not perfect. No one is perfect, everyone has emotions. Sometimes more communication and accountability are needed. Anyway, when two people come together, it's fate. Don't easily hurt each other, and strive to do it when you can save them in time. If marriage can still be saved, please don't give up easily. If marriage can no longer be saved, please learn to turn around gracefully. Happiness is not the only thing.