Post Date December, 02 2023
After being introduced by a friend, I met a boy. The first time I met him, I was with other friends and everyone had a great time. The second time I met him alone, and in the end, he proposed to have sex with me because he hadn't had a girlfriend for a long time (he had around 10 girlfriends before), and I didn't have sex with the boy before, so I refused him at that time.
Later on, the topic between us was always on this issue, which put a lot of pressure on me. It wasn't because I was very feudal, but because I felt that everyone didn't understand very well, so I always insisted on my own opinions. Can this boy still socialize?
It has to be said that a young and light boy who has already dated ten girlfriends is too playful.
A boy who has just met for the second time and bluntly mentioned "going to bed" does not treat you as someone who must get married in his heart.
Usually, a man who believes that a woman is the right person to get married doesn't dare to make any mistakes in the first few meetings. As long as he dares to recklessly mention 'going to bed', he hopes to try it out first. If it feels good, he can continue to maintain it. If it feels good again for a long time, he can turn back and talk about a more stable relationship.
Nowadays, many relationships begin with the "bed". Some men and women, at the beginning, do not necessarily fall in love because of love, but only because of sex. They are in love because the woman needs to pursue a result and a guarantee, so the man has to give her a commitment to marriage. But what is certain is that this type of marriage model has a greater chance of problems in the future. A man's body is more likely to feel bored than his heart.
Girls, if a man doesn't say "love" to you first, but says "sex" to you first, it's best to keep a distance with him first, because no one can guarantee that you will get what you want in this step.
He said he hasn't had a girlfriend for a long time, so he hopes you can help him solve his physiological problems first. This is really a very self centered man. A man who has dated three or two girlfriends is not a rare thing, but a man who has ten unsuccessful romantic experiences at a young age should consider it carefully as a girl. Behind these unsuccessful love stories, it must not only be the responsibility of those ten girls. More specifically, this boy has not been identified yet!
In love, the body is indeed a woman's capital, but this requires women to invest recklessly without understanding their situation!
The first time a woman should have sex for love, so as not to regret it. If you hand it over to a man who has sex purely for the sake of sex, you will surely regret it for the rest of your life.
The biggest regret in a woman's life is that she has given the most precious thing, but has not returned her love.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
