Post Date December, 03 2023
We often hear that many people admire beautiful girls, believing that they often enjoy many benefits, have good luck, are more popular, have smoother romantic relationships than the average person (with many suitors), and even become popular in the workplace. So many girls hope to become regular girls, thinking that appearance is important, and not having an outstanding appearance is really a loss. In fact, in reality, this is more or less the case. Appearance is indeed important, and we are all influenced by it. First impressions also affect our judgments many times.
We won't say that appearance doesn't matter, it's deceptive (unless we're blind), but is it really only appearance that matters? That's not necessarily true. From childhood to adulthood, I have also met many beautiful women. Some people say that beauty is a privilege ticket in life, and those who have a good appearance are lucky to get many tickets, whether it is in love, life, or work. However, is beauty a guarantee? Not at all.
I have seen many beautiful women all along, and at this age of sitting around looking around, I have also observed many changes in people. I have always wanted to write this article to explore the topic of "Is a person with beauty always lucky. I have found that people with good looks are indeed lucky enough to receive a "discount ticket" in their lives. Compared to other ordinary people, their luck and attention are indeed much greater. However, this "discount ticket" is not permanent, that is to say, beauty has a deadline, and good luck also exists. However, because the discount ticket is so easy to obtain, they often do not realize that they have accidentally exceeded the expiration date.
Indeed, heaven is unfair, and people are born unequal. Therefore, some people are born smart, wealthy, good-looking, and possess talent. However, I believe that natural good luck only lasts until their twenties, and after their thirties, they rely on your nurture and hard work. Many people have innate good luck, but if they don't work hard the day after tomorrow, they will still fail. However, some people know that they have innate shortcomings, so they work hard the day after tomorrow, and even the turtle and rabbit races will win.
When it comes to beauty, some people say that beauty does not have a good life. In the past, I didn't agree with it and thought it was discrimination against good-looking people. However, later on, I found out that wanting to have a good life is not necessarily related to beauty.
Speaking of several beautiful women I have seen in my life, I envied them both when I was a child and when I was young. However, as time goes on, after ten or twenty years, you will find that everyone has changed a lot. The people you used to envy may have surpassed them now. How have people who you thought were very beautiful become ugly? People who used to think were ugly ducklings have become better looking, or people whose homework was worse than yours when you were a child, Now my achievements are even higher than yours. So I found that if someone is born with beauty, but doesn't work hard the day after tomorrow, and only wants to take shortcuts based on their beauty, they usually go downhill faster than the average person.
The girl I met during my student years, A, has always been a beautiful girl at the school flower level since childhood. The boys who pursue her are really available in all schools, so when we were still taking the bus to and from school, different boys would pick her up and drop her off every day. When she was in college, her pursuit also included social figures, so when we didn't know what a brand was, she had already carried various brand bags to school every day. In fact, she is not only beautiful, but also admitted to a good university, which is enviable. However, during her college years, she already had a boyfriend from a social figure to support her (also known as Sugar
Daddy), after graduation, I met her several times and was surprised that she had never been working, but she was still a full body brand. On the surface, her life was very comfortable, but she always felt that it was different from most of us, and we didn't know what to talk about, so we didn't get in touch. After a few years, we accidentally met her again, but she didn't recognize her appearance. I heard that she had changed her boyfriend who could support her, and then she broke up. Now that she is getting older, it's not easy to find a boyfriend who can support her, so she has to come out to work. But she, who has never had work experience, cannot endure hardship or do low-paid jobs, as if she is constantly changing jobs.
Another beautiful girl, also known as B, was a school flower when she was a child. She had been advertising since childhood and her model like figure made many classmates envious. After graduation, she heard that she had also been admitted to a good national university. After several years of hard work, she heard about her again, but unexpectedly on the news. It turned out that when she worked in college, she was dating the company boss as a junior, and the boss divorced her wife for her. Later, he married her, but within a few years, he had an affair again, and it even made news. In the end, she didn't give her alimony. Now that she's taking care of her own children, she may be under financial pressure and find it difficult to find a job (even though she graduated from a national university but doesn't have work experience). Later, she went to a sex establishment to make money. My former classmates felt sorry for her when they heard about her current situation.
There are many other examples, all of which are the great beauties that we used to envy. They are naturally lucky, but for some reason, these people who have life discount tickets are often misled by the fact that they are too easy to get preferential treatment. Many people who no longer work hard and recklessly spend their own money feel that they have too easy to obtain, compared to those who do not have innate advantages and therefore need to work particularly hard, They easily feel that life should be 'lucky' all the way down.
Such a beautiful woman, for some reason, her beauty disappears very quickly. Often, after ten or twenty years, you will suddenly feel that she is not so charming anymore. Do you think that when everyone is striving to move forward, she still stands still. If one day, her beauty is no longer valuable and easily replaced, and if you don't work hard and lack strength, what is left?
Of course, there are also some lucky ones who not only have beauty, but also know how to work hard. Therefore, she knows how to cherish her "discount ticket" more and doesn't want to rely solely on beauty to prove herself, make herself successful, and let her achievements surpass beauty.
You will find that some girls who didn't look very beautiful before, even ugly ducklings, but as they work tirelessly to make themselves better, they gradually become more charming, confident, and beautiful. These "lucky" women are not afraid of not being born without preferential tickets, but rather start their own lives and earn tickets to success.
If you think that as long as you have beauty, it's easy to get love or success, it's really just temporary. If you want to take the long term in life, it's not just luck that counts.
In terms of love, you think beautiful people are more likely to fall in love and attract more people than you. However, looking around you, is it true that beautiful people are happier? Not necessarily.
You would think that people with excellent appearance are more popular in the workplace. But are all the truly successful people in the workplace those with outstanding appearance? Not necessarily.
Beautiful people are more likely to get love, but managing a relationship and marriage does not rely on your beauty (perhaps Xiao San or Xiao Wang is even uglier than you, just like the girl who is a Xiao San who was actually killed by Xiao Si who is uglier than her). A good-looking person is more likely to receive preferential tickets in life, which is easier and easier than others. However, it is not a passport to a happy life. If one only wants to obtain a passport to a happy life through appearance, they often find that reality is not as simple as they think.
Perhaps you now envy others for being luckier and having better innate conditions than you, but you must not be discouraged, because the future still depends on your efforts the day after tomorrow. As long as you work hard, you can surpass them. If you happen to be the lucky one, don't just rely on "good luck" to live your life. One day when luck runs out and you don't cherish it, it will disappear faster than you think.
If you are lucky, but you need to prove that you are not relying solely on luck.
You should strive to become a more beautiful person as you live, and a person who can withstand tests. Even if you don't have innate good luck, you can still rely on yourself to walk the "old luck". A person with such a long life, who knows how to manage themselves, believes in their own value, and can create "good luck" even without good luck, is a wise person! Beauty is a discount ticket, but living a beautiful life depends on oneself.
