Post Date December, 02 2023
Everyone expects to get perfect love, but sometimes love is like deliberately playing tricks on us. It often makes us feel more or less incomplete in happiness. Sometimes, we can't forget the imperfect part; Sometimes, we seem to have forgotten it, but we feel that there will always be a slight scar, which makes us pull our heart and lungs and abuse our heart. Of course, we always think that the problem of heart abuse should be the exclusive right of women, but many men also do the same. So, what kind of love is most cruel to men?
1. Love that is full of fantasy but can't be touched
Love exists in great imagination, which can be summarized in one sentence: imagination is huge and full, but reality is small and thin. This kind of love, which looks far and near, is like touching a real model in the window outside the glass. Others can never understand the pain that can't come and touch. Even in the dead of night, it is difficult to sleep peacefully with this dreamy tangle. There was no confession, no response, and there was only one solo play that sang in the dark, so it should be considered very cruel love.
2. Love that has been ruthlessly betrayed after vows
The old vows of love are still fresh in my memory, but everything in front of me has become filthy and dirty. It is clearly agreed that we will love each other forever, but the result is that the old words have never been passed to the present. With this kind of penetrating pain, even the mildest man can't help being anxious. Even after a period of time, he still can't get rid of it, just like a lump in his throat and a lump in his chest. Also, the heart-cold that penetrates the heart is like an ice sword that has gone through thousands of years. When it penetrates the heart, it brings in the continuous freezing, so that the blood will no longer have its own blood boiling in an instant.
3. Love that is like glue but has to be separated temporarily
Before you can feel the most refreshing sweetness of love, you have to go all the way, all the way to the end of the world. Whether it is not to give up, whether it is resentment, or the mockery of God's arrangement, in a word, all of them are reflected in the moment of departure. However, the beauty is far away and life is still going on, so I have to get together with my lover in the middle of sorrow and suffering. Maybe this is the only stimulant that can keep your heart from too slow in the ordeal.
4. Love with love and hate, but without understanding
One side is love, and the other side is hate. Both sides are always equal. If you love more, hate will rise. If you love less, hate will fall. Time is like a balance, playing with love and hate, these two naughty little things. Because I have been living in such a state of oppression and relief for a long time, I feel extremely depressed and want to find a suitable way out, but the more I want to find a way out, the longer I get lost.
5. Meet the right person at the wrong time and place
There is nothing more complicated than this in the world. When you meet the right person at the wrong time and place, whether you love or stay away, the thoughts that touch your heart most consider your conscience. No one can tell whether to love or not, and no one can tell whether to happen or not. Only when it comes to the moment of choice can you know how tangled your heart is. If there is a trace of guilt and guilt, it is impossible to say whether it is love or sexual encounter, which will haunt all the following days and nights.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
