Post Date December, 03 2023
It is always difficult for men to admit their mistakes. Men often have a stubborn mentality that can also be annoying. Why do men have such a strange mentality, and what is the reason for this strange mentality? Let's take a look at it together, analyze the male's stubborn mentality, and also look at specific solutions.
Have you ever tried to argue with your boyfriend, who has been looking for various reasons, living or dying without apologizing, as if deliberately challenging your bottom line. "You, who couldn't bear it because of his attitude, finally broke out, and a century war broke out.". Men have their own thinking and different brain circuits when they are silent, making excuses, or refusing to admit mistakes! When you talk to him, do you really understand what he's thinking?
1. When women ask questions, men feel blamed
For example, when a woman asks a man "Where have you been today?", she actually casually asks, but the man will feel a kind of doubt, even if it is very weak, but also feel "Are you blaming me?".
Later, if a man replies, "I went to drink and socialize," women often respond, "I've been socializing a lot lately," and the male brain circuitry is, "Ah, it's really blaming me.". The same question may have different answers, but men are the kind of creatures who think of other people's problems as questioning and are very incapable of handling them, which is also a matter of no choice.
2. Men always want to prove that they are "very honest"
Men have their own style of thinking, and their brain circuitry makes them always want to prove that they are "very upright.". This kind of self righteous thinking determines the way things are handled. For example, when something falls, they will first think of "who put it here!", exclude themselves as the "culprit", and then lose their temper over the thing. This is a very common picture. This is the so-called self integrity doctrine, which constantly emphasizes that one is not bad, and thus determines the next move.
In the same way, men are also less likely to bow their heads and admit mistakes when arguing. Even if I deeply know that I am wrong, I don't want to apologize, because this will destroy the integrity image I have created.
3. Putting men down the steps is a clever way to argue
To understand the cautious thinking of men, women should have a different approach when facing this situation, which is to leave room for negotiation and settlement. As in the previous example, what women should do is not to say "I've been having a lot of socializing lately", but rather to vaguely answer "Oh".
Of course, if you want to have a good exchange of views and come up with a perfect solution, such a dialogue will not work, but if you use a moment of authority to say something insignificant, it will only lead to a quarrel. Therefore, leaving steps for men is the wise way to avoid meaningless quarrels.
After mastering the psychology of these men, we can better achieve our own health, without worrying about our health, and we can also become better and more perfect.
