There is a woman whose husband has achieved success in her career, and she enjoys herself. One day, she discovered that there was more than one woman outside her husband. My husband explained to her, "I will take care of this family and take care of you for the rest of my life. However, my pressure is too great and you can't help me solve it, so I just need to find a few women to relieve the pressure
Men openly gave her an ultimatum, but of course she didn't agree and requested a divorce.
When a woman invests all her time and energy into her family, she loses the most important thing - her husband's genuine respect for her. Many marriages break down, and it is not entirely the fault of men, because women do not allow themselves to learn and grow, so they lose the capital to be respected by men. What else can a woman have if she loses respect?
Here are a few questions to test if there is capital that your husband respects:
1. Can you support yourself with great quality?
2. Would your family be proud to mention you?
3. Your child is willing to communicate with you and admires you when encountering any problems?
4. Can you always help your husband when he needs financial help?
5. Does your husband want to communicate with you as soon as he encounters problems in his life or work?
6. Do you have a good image?
If a woman can achieve the above points, she must be highly respected by her family. Women must be willing to invest in themselves. When a woman can have a youthful appearance and the ability and wisdom to create wealth, she will become very secure. It will take off all its weapons, and the outward appearance is even more comfortable and gentle.
When a woman cannot change her current situation, she can only change herself first. If one does not change, life will always stay at the same point.
Managing oneself as a queen naturally attracts emperors;
Managing oneself as a princess naturally attracts princes;
Managing oneself as a beautiful woman naturally attracts heroes;
Managing oneself as a demon naturally attracts hooligans.
You can attract your significant other at the level you manage yourself to! The same goes for work, success attracts success! Some people say: Why do women struggle? Better marry well than do well? The question is, is' marrying well 'easier than' doing well '? You need to give people reasons to love you.
The teacher said, "Self reliant women are the most confident! I'm afraid that women are like this: life is in the kitchen, income is in the mall, wealth is not available, grades are in the hands of superiors, body is in the hands of men, time is in the hands of children, and only freckles and wrinkles are their own
So, please love yourself more! Love oneself is a lifelong lesson for women! Always remember: "The attitude a man loves you depends on the degree to which you love yourself! Smart women know how to be themselves. That's really great. Women should love themselves well!