40% of women experience sexual terror, mainly due to insufficient sexual knowledge and a certain level of fear. Husbands must provide guidance and start from the perspective of sexual terror.
Why do women have sexual fear?
After marriage, women's sexual terror is normal. Because when faced with unexpected things for the first time, one may feel terrifying, and no matter how much sexual knowledge one has, they will be afraid of having sex. In terms of sexual activity, women have always been in a passive state. Sexual fear mainly refers to certain psychological barriers to sexual activity, which can lead to fear emotions when facing sexual intercourse, mainly manifested as sweating, nausea, palpitations, etc. There are many reasons for fear of sexual intercourse, such as not receiving proper sex education or receiving strong stimulation during sexual development.
How to alleviate female sexual fear?
1. Women strive to overcome
Most women's sexual fear is mainly due to a lack of certain sexual knowledge. Couples should read more books on sexual knowledge, watch more sex videos, and understand women's psychological changes and sexual reactions in a timely manner.
2. Learn to divert attention
Shifting attention from the object of fear can better eliminate sexual fear. Because women have doubts and timidity when they first meet, men should be considerate and caring for women, engage in caressing and patient conversations, and stimulate their sexual desire. When women cannot suppress their sexual impulses, slowly completing sexual activity can eliminate their sexual fear.
3. Women cannot marry with fear
If you get married with a sense of fear, it will inevitably affect your sexual life after marriage. In the days before getting married, women should learn more about the process of sexual intercourse. Women should understand that there is no reason to be afraid of sexual intercourse. Giving oneself for the first time to someone they like is not harm, but happiness. From a physiological perspective, women's vaginal stretch is very good. As long as they are not so nervous and fearful, they will experience a certain amount of pleasure instead of pain. The more fearful they are, the more painful they will feel, forming a vicious cycle.
4. It's best to have men help during sex
During sexual activity, women can seek help from their husbands, discuss more about sex, increase intimacy, and avoid feelings of shame. Men can comfort their wives and treat them gently