Post Date December, 02 2023
[Question]
After ten years of marriage, we once lived a smooth and peaceful life. Those messy things should be insulated from our happiness.
My husband was my first love, and we were lovers in high school. After 8 years of love, we finally walked into the marriage palace hand in hand. With the blessings of all our family and friends, we cherished a beautiful belief and decided to spend this life together. My husband was really very kind to me at that time. Many people say that first love is for remembrance, and most people's first love never ends. However, we have undoubtedly become the most enviable couple in the eyes of friends.
I know that I am a person with few requirements, and my requirements for my husband have always been, as long as I put my heart into it. During holidays, when he works overtime, I won't complain and always understand.
To love someone is not to tie him up, but now I often regret it. Is it because I gave my husband too much freedom that he is so unscrupulous?
In March this year, I became pregnant. My husband was not ecstatic at that time, but a little worried. At that time, I didn't know that there was a third person between me and him. I was immersed in the joy of becoming a mother, completely unaware of the approaching crisis.
In mid March, my husband called frequently. He told me that the company had a project and needed to be resident in another area. He would be away for four or five months. I said you go. I have a family member to take care of me. However, in late March, I had to make a decision that was quite painful in my life. I called my husband to tell him that the examination results were not satisfactory, and the doctor recommended terminating the pregnancy. I was particularly sad and hoped that he could come back and spend time with me. "But he hesitated and said that he couldn't take good care of me when he came back, allowing me to rest assured.".
That's our child. Doesn't he matter? Later, I learned that he and Xiao San had gone crazy and had not used contraception many times before and after, leading to Xiao San being pregnant for half a month first! During the period of my miscarriage, his so-called official assignment was actually accompanying the third child!
"I'm really devastated, and I haven't seen it before. I trusted him so much, and he didn't have a clue before he confessed to me.". The current situation is that Xiaosan insists on giving birth to the child, otherwise he will use his life as a threat. For four months, I am really anxious. Xiaosan is rich, and she wants my husband's love. My husband dares not to accompany her, for fear that she is really upset, but what about me? "When I underwent surgery in the hospital, he was not with me. Why should I bear the pain of losing my child alone? That's my husband, not her man!"!! What can I do to save my home?
[Answer]
The first time, it's time to ask for help! "The third child became pregnant accidentally, and things got out of control.". Your husband may not have thought of such a day when he cheated, otherwise, he wouldn't have panicked, lost his way, and turned to you for help.
He explained to you that the matter was so difficult that he couldn't handle it and had to confess. But it's cruel for you. However, you need to keep your thinking clear - using threats to restrain men from staying by their side shows that the third child is also out of skill.
The key is the issue of children, which must be properly addressed. "This matter cannot be dealt with by you, otherwise it will be his cheating and your aftermath. You cannot put yourself in a more awkward position. Communicate with experts and we will help you.".
