Post Date April, 15 2023
I have fallen in love with a man who has a married husband. He treats me very well, takes care of me every detail, and cares about me. I'm only 21 years old this year, and he's 11 years older than me. I know it's not good to disrupt someone's family like this. Sometimes when I see him talking to his family on the phone, I always think it's his wife's call. The more I think about it, the more I cry, and my heart feels particularly uncomfortable.
One day, I asked him if you would dislike me if I reached your age. He said no, am I too naive? I think so, but I don't know what to do? Good tangle.
reply:
1. "To live, it's best not to steal anything, not to mention rob it, especially emotions. Although stealing and robbing can excite you for a moment, they never last long, and it's important to return them sooner or later.".
2. Girls like a man with a family, nothing more than valuing this man's maturity, steadiness, or willingness to spend money for you. However, have you ever thought about a man with a family, no matter how good he is, no matter how attractive he is, no matter how much she likes him, he also belongs to other women, he will never belong to you, and what you enjoy is just second-hand goods.
3. Also, girls should never trust the sweet words of a man with a family. No matter how well he speaks to you and how sweet and touching his love words are, they are only temporary pleasantries, even dirty disobedience, because if he doesn't please you so much, how can he deceive you? Just imagine that a man like him can treat you secretly without his wife, and he can also treat other women well. Is it really worth your effort for him to do so? "He wants to please and possess you on the premise of betraying and hurting another woman, but to satisfy his vanity and possessiveness. He is far from being as perfect and excellent as you imagine, and all this is the result of your own imagination and being deceived.".
4. For this reason, as a young person, please don't let yourself sink deeper and deeper. If you feel your innocence yourself, then you are not confused to the end. You have the ability and the opportunity to save yourself. Take good care of your beautiful youth, don't let the fleeting youth leave behind the filth and regret of life, and don't let your momentary innocence delay your great future. Hurry up and come out. The more you entangle yourself, the more you will reap greater pain and helplessness. I hope you will wake up and get out of the predicament as soon as possible.
