Post Date December, 02 2023
I fell in love with a married man. At first, I didn't know he was married and had children. At the beginning of our relationship, I asked him seriously. He said he was single and asked this answer several times, but later I believed him.
On Valentine's Day on August 20th, I realized that there was a photo of a family of three on his other account. It was only then that I realized that he had a family. I called him and he explained to me that he didn't want to make me sad. He also said he would divorce sooner or later and asked me if he wanted to?
As for the children, it's up to me whether his mother takes them away or leaves them behind. Then he takes them with him. The three of us went out to play for a few days. After a few days, I was too tired to take care of the children. Now the child is one year old and nine months old, he promised me that when the child is three years old and goes to kindergarten, he will divorce again. I don't need to worry too much. I can't stand this. I know I'm not good, but I like this man.
reply:
The primary prerequisite for measuring whether a man loves you or not is integrity, and one cannot deceive the other party. And the premise for the man you love to truly love is hello. Women must be cautious when interacting with men, just like men and women nowadays also need to be cautious. Single men will worry about what to do if they encounter a scammer? So, as a single woman, I must also think about what if I encounter someone who cheats money and sex? If a man is dishonest and deceiving you from the beginning, no matter how excellent, handsome, or wealthy he is, he is not worth living with unless you are willing to be cheap.
You can use the excuse of not knowing he had a family at first to maintain a romantic relationship with him, but once you see through his cheater's face, you should angrily slap him in the face and disappear in front of him. But you didn't, you accepted his explanation and even went out to play with him. What do you really think? You said you like this man, but what qualifications do you have to like him? He is now a member of the family, this is the fact. He said that it would be better to divorce in the future or wait for the child to attend kindergarten at the age of three. That's just his one-sided statement. What if he just wants to stabilize you and drag it on indefinitely? What will he do when the freshness of being with you passes, like shaking off a big winter snot? At that time, you only had to cry and wipe away tears.
Wake up, girl, don't be silly. Married men usually use this trick to deceive women and achieve their hidden goals. In reality, how many girls end up being scammed by men because of their innocence and willfulness! Don't want to be hurt by men in the future. If you are sensible enough, you should leave quickly. It may be your loss if you leave late. Don't hesitate and hesitate any more. Go back to the shore and find the prince charming who really belongs to you. He doesn't belong to you now!!
