My husband and I have been married for six years, and our relationship is not very good. He is lazy and lazy, and our economic conditions are not very comfortable. We almost have a small quarrel every three days, and a big one every five days. Soon, I learned that my husband had a woman outside, and I was very distressed. I grew up in a single parent family, and we had children, so we didn't want to give up marriage for the children. However, my two girlfriends, who are considered girlfriends, are also good at living as a junior outside. They sometimes advise me to be so foolish. While I am still young and beautiful, why should I suffer such a foreign sin when I am with a rich person, and your husband is not even single-minded towards you. Sometimes I really want to go the way they do. I'm very contradictory. How can I face my current relationship and marriage?
Hello friend, your husband was chosen by yourself. He is lazy and has poor financial conditions. You should be very clear about this before marriage. Why should you marry when you have a bad relationship. Therefore, careless choices before marriage will inevitably lead to many problems after marriage. Faced with the betrayal of your husband, you may not be irresponsible. How can you love your family and attach yourself to a marriage when your frequent quarrels have left your family without warmth and social status! As a woman, don't always complain about her husband, but encourage him more. Don't always argue with him, but learn to care more.
It is also important for you to be cautious in making friends, establish a good interpersonal network, and make friends and girlfriends with honest and kind-hearted people. Looking at the two sisters you have made as junior three, I don't know where you know them. Their values will affect your outlook on life. The beauty of being a junior three is far from the surface we see, and who can see the pain and helplessness in it! Don't lose your faith in life when encountering setbacks and marital misfortunes, blindly choosing a life that may not be suitable for you. However unfortunate marriage may be, we must have the courage to face it. However helpless life may be, we cannot take the wrong path. This is the principle of being a person. Because countless facts have proven that a truly happy life ultimately depends on your own efforts and dedication, and the enjoyment of sitting back and enjoying it can only become a drive to the abyss of pain!
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My wedding day is approaching, and my fiance and I want to earn more money to decorate our house. The agency company found me a job as a month's sister-in-law, but because of the high salary, I still went. "When I worked for 20 days, the host had a birthday, and after drinking, the host actually made out with me behind his wife's back.". Later, I was pregnant with a child, and it was a dragon and phoenix fetus. "I have no relationship with my boyfriend, and the child belongs to the male host. What should I do?"?
Hello friend, judging from your confidences, you don't seem to have much intention of pursuing your own fault, but you really want to shift the blame onto that male host, do you? What is the meaning of the host making love to you after drinking and carrying his wife behind his back? What about yourself? What did you think at that time? Didn't you agree to make love to him if he wanted to? Why don't you refuse and resist? Don't tell me you're making more money decorating your house for marriage. Do you think you're innocent?
What do you want me to do now? In fact, you should ask the male host what to do. If you gave him a dragon and phoenix fetus, did the man jump up with joy. "While he's happy, ask him to compensate you for more money. Aren't you trying to earn more money?"?
"You're all about to get married, and you haven't had any relationship with your boyfriend yet. How come at such a crucial moment, you've gone off the rails with a guy you just met? It's ridiculous!"! What else can you do now? Do you want to ask yourself if you still want to marry your boyfriend, or are you just willing to be a junior, give birth to your child, and then let that man settle down and raise you outside the home? What on earth do you think?
If you listen to my opinion, I think you should kill the child in your belly as soon as possible. If you can hold this man accountable, you should hold him accountable. Then, stay away from this place, take good care of yourself, do whatever you can, get married, be a clean woman, don't be so frivolous, don't neglect your body, and know that loyalty and self-love are a woman's most valuable wealth, more important than how much money you earn.
Now, there is also the question of whether this matter can be concealed from your boyfriend and whether your boyfriend will forgive you. It all depends on your luck and attitude. Even if your boyfriend broke up with you and broke up with you due to this matter, you can only face the reality and accept it well. Because this is purely your own fault, and you harm yourself, learn from it. Don't make mistakes again and again, and don't repeat the same mistakes.