Post Date December, 02 2023
Many men care whether their girlfriend is a virgin or not. For them, virginity is precious and love is more valuable. But men should know that virgins and non virgins have little impact, and the key is whether you really love her. True love must resonate with the soul. For example, if Xu Zhimo's affection for Lin Huiyin is true love, why bother so much? What if my boyfriend says goodbye to me due to the virgin plot at this time? What if you encounter a virgin who ends up with a boyfriend and says goodbye? At this point, you might as well let him know about this.
1. Live in the present and value the present
Freedom of love in modern society. There are so many men in the world, why did I choose to fall in love with you? Because I firmly believe that you are different from others. Men care about virgins, on the one hand, they really care about whether their girlfriend is really their first love, or whether they can penetrate into their girlfriend's heart. On the other hand, it is actually a manifestation of their lack of confidence. But as long as you calm down and think about it, if your girlfriend has had romantic experience but still chooses to be with you in the end, it will already prove your status in his heart. All you need is to face your present. If your girlfriend really doesn't have any other problems, you should feel lucky. At least you can meet the person you love. Since you have feelings, sex is not the only measure of emotions, nor should it become the standard for whether you can be together. The key is whether she treats you wholeheartedly after being with you. Everything else should not be ignored.
2. Understand society without being complacent
The reason why a boyfriend has a virgin complex may also be because his life is too conservative. Actually, society has changed. You can tell him some experiences. For example, most students nowadays go to college, and free love was already commonplace during college. Girls are somewhat attractive, and most famous flowers have their own owners. Many people who graduated from university did not reach an agreement or broke up with each other. So, there are very few virgins nowadays. Even if you break up with your girlfriend, the one you're looking for may not necessarily be a virgin. Even if your girlfriend is not a virgin, after experiencing past emotional setbacks, she may know how to cherish you even more. So, we need to learn to understand society and accept some social realities. At the same time, let your boyfriend know not to let this difficulty become a barrier between two people. Learn to recognize the essence of things: in love, the key is for two people to love each other, and everything else is secondary.
3. Be lenient towards others and strict with oneself
You know, no one is perfect. The things you feel beautiful often cannot withstand analysis and scrutiny. Just like the movie stars we often see, you think she's pretty, but you may not be able to accept her makeup removal appearance. In fact, finding a partner is also the same. Don't use the other person's past to punish them, learn to treat them with tolerance. At the same time, one should also recognize one's own shortcomings and shortcomings. Perhaps you think she's not a virgin, but she may still think you're not tall, wealthy, and handsome? Life is not inherently perfect, let us learn how to cherish, learn tolerance and tolerance. Instead of struggling with their past, it's better to manage your future well. Think about your current situation and focus on personal or mutual improvement. Both parties can grow, which is the purpose of love.
The problem often does not lie in the problem itself. As long as the other party is willing to communicate and exchange ideas, then you need to seize the opportunity. Use both reason and emotion to save your boyfriend with strength and sincerity. After all, it's not easy to meet someone you really like. Once you meet someone, don't give up easily.
