Playful men are not uncommon at all, and extramarital men are a bunch of them. They are easily tempted and interfered with by the outside world, and their self-control is very poor.
But in fact, many times men have their own bottom line, knowing the responsibilities and obligations they need to bear in the family, so they won't be too indulgent. Even if they cross the line, they will try their best to make up for it. Of course, there are some exceptions to this.
The question of whether a husband can be reconciled after an affair must vary from person to person and has a certain relationship with both spouses. Firstly, we need to understand why men are unwilling to give up after having an affair?
Many men refuse to give up after having an affair, but in order to protect their families, they may promise to never cheat again, but in reality, they do not take any action to give up. Why are men unwilling to give up?
Firstly, we have developed a habit of cheating.
After his first infidelity, it is easy for him to have a second or third one. At this point, a man's infidelity becomes uncontrollable under the influence of inertia, and over time, it becomes easy to get used to it. In addition, the infidelity is easily addictive, making it difficult for a man to let go. He may even feel uncomfortable and bored without infidelity.
Secondly, the stimulation of extramarital affairs makes men unable to stop.
For many men, the purpose of cheating may be to pursue temporary excitement and novelty, after all, men are a kind of animal that likes the new and dislikes the old.
Once a man engages in infidelity out of curiosity and seduction, it is easy for him to become uncontrollable on the path of infidelity under the stimulation of infidelity, causing him to fall deeper and deeper, thus losing himself in the stimulation of infidelity and unable to control his rational behavior.
Thirdly, the excuse for infidelity makes men feel justified.
Men often get used to finding various reasons for their infidelity. When women ask why men cheat, men always have a lot of reasons waiting for you.
For example, complaining about women being not gentle enough, having a big temper, lacking femininity, being too strict with oneself, lacking freedom, and so on. Who knows? Many times, the fundamental purpose of men presenting these reasons is to find a grand excuse for their infidelity.
Although men have many excuses for extramarital affairs that sound reasonable, as men, they understand the social and family responsibilities they need to bear, so men are willing to live in harmony with their wives under the last resort.
In the matter of an affair, if the wife handles it properly, most men are willing to turn their backs on the cliff, after all, men love their wives at home.
A wise woman should never cry or make a scene if she wants to regain her husband's heart. Instead, she should adopt a rational approach, open her heart and calm down with her husband for a chat, trying to extract his true thoughts of an affair from his mouth as much as possible.
At the same time, you can also intelligently and indirectly settle an account with your husband. If he doesn't give up, what kind of consequences will be caused, both hard and soft. As long as your husband is reasonable, seeing such a virtuous and sensible wife, he will definitely change his past mistakes, start a new life, and take good care of himself.
On the contrary, if a noisy approach is adopted, it may only result in two outcomes: one blow, two breakdowns, and an escalation, which is the most cost-effective!