Post Date December, 03 2023
The seven-year itch is what we often say. Men can often say to her, "I love you," and the feeling of being loved and valued "is the most basic need of women in marriage. Husbands can actually spend some ingenious thinking to make it sound more interesting and creative.
[Ignite the wife's enthusiasm with gratitude and praise]
If you really can't share more housework, at least show your gratitude, not take it for granted.
From the physical characteristics of the outside to the beautiful characteristics of the inside, we should praise them one by one. For example, they have beautiful black hair, pleasant laughter, or healthy body. Be considerate, warm to others, good at raising children, or caring for elders.
Choose the most important traits for you and her to praise. But it is not enough to say it once. If you want others to remember something, you should repeat it at least five times to achieve the effect. In addition, tell others her merits, her family, friends and colleagues. When others tell her your praise, it will stimulate her love in her heart. Remember, the wife who lives in praise will always be bright and moving.
[Less negative and powerful words]
"You can't be like someone's wife. Be considerate and say less."
"How unlucky I was to marry you.".
"Why are the people in your family so poor?"
Words with strong killing power are one of the killers of marriage. I'm afraid ten good words can't make up for one hurtful word. Therefore, it is necessary to form a good habit in general. Don't abuse your wife with unpleasant words. If you are really angry, you should also slow down and communicate after you are angry.
Of course, loving your wife hurts your wife, and there are definitely more ways to maintain your marriage. Only by carefully understanding your wife's needs in marriage, generous supply and careful care can you achieve a good marriage.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
