Post Date December, 02 2023
Men like women to be gentle and considerate, sexy and beautiful, industrious and able to keep a family... Women always think men are like men, why not listen to them?
What do men expect from the woman they love? Body, appearance, ability, family background and personality may all be possible, but a sincere intimate relationship begins when the man feels that the woman "really loves him".
After talking with hundreds of men about their ideal intimate relationship, we collected the following "men's declaration":
Men's hopes and needs:
1. "She loves the real me, not the perfect me in her fantasy. I don't want to satisfy her romantic fantasy, because I know that the reality is not so, and the result may make her more disappointed."
2. "She can admit that she also has a selfish side. I am not the only self-centered person. Her own contribution to love is limited, and sometimes she just uses me to meet her requirements. In addition, I don't want her subconscious to hide some stereotypes and negative feelings about men."
3. "When I put forward that she makes me feel stressed, she can readily accept it without accusing me of being picky or not loving her. I hope she can draw closer to each other according to the way we discussed."
4. She knows that communication should be two-way. When we can calmly discuss the reasons after the dispute, I hope she knows that my fierce reaction is partly caused by her influence. I don't want to be referred to as "the problematic party" or "not knowing how to love"
5. "She will not sacrifice other things around her because of me or our relationship; because she will make me feel compelled to pay more than I am willing to pay. In other words, I hope the woman I love can understand that when I pay less than she expected, it is not necessarily my fault."
6、 "She won't ask me too much to exceed her ability to make her happy. I don't want her to change herself to cater to me, and I want me to be responsible for her sacrifice. She doesn't just tell me that she has any dissatisfaction with our relationship, but should put forward some ways to improve it. I don't want to always guess her idea, and now she is unhappy? When the problem occurs, it is not enough to be told that it exists; I prefer her to be with me Same as solving the problem. "
It is believed that when women understand the struggles men face in sexual relations and the traditional sexual relations are changing day by day, love will also make both parties feel more satisfied. In fact, a happy gender relationship can not only make both sides enjoy a healthy life, but also get rid of the tragedy of "separation due to understanding" between the two sexes for a long time.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
