Post Date December, 03 2023
Everyone has their own values and concerns in love. For men, they are usually not good at expressing themselves, so even if they care, they may not tell their women. If you love them, you need to understand what they care about. Usually, men will be very concerned about these things below women.
1. The Past of Women
No matter how society develops and how open the social atmosphere is, when it comes to women's sexual experience, men still harbor it in their hearts. Men who marry care about a woman's past. This past is not about how many love experiences a woman has had, but whether a woman is a virgin. If not, men also want to know how many men a woman has had before them.
After all, men's virginity complex is still deeply ingrained, and at the same time, in life, men are accustomed to trying out sex before marriage, and can also take no responsibility for their actions. It is a contradiction to be strict with one's future wife. So women, it's better to be smart. Before marriage, don't trust a man's mouth too much. You don't mind if a man is not a virgin, but he is likely to mind if you are not a virgin.
2. The Motivation of Love
The older one is, the longer they spend rolling around in society, and the less pure their desire for love is compared to when they were young. Especially for men who already had a house, a car, and financial advantages before marriage, they may even doubt whether women have a purpose in loving themselves. They hope that the other person falls in love because they love him, not because of his conditions, so when he has the idea of getting married, he also needs to consider this issue. Women should remember that if they fall in love with a man with better material conditions, they must be able to express their desire for money too clearly.
3. Family conditions
Women care about men's family conditions, but men also care. When a group of young people are together, they always discuss their girlfriends' family conditions, and the most favored condition for men is definitely the condition of power and influence. Modern society is a cruel one, and having power and influence can definitely save him a few years of struggle. Additionally, female parents have stable jobs, the youngest ranking, or have a younger sister instead of a younger brother. Because men also do not want to help their father-in-law and mother-in-law bear the responsibility of brother-in-law, or even the cost of buying a house, after getting married.
The most unacceptable female family environment for men is that their parents are not in good health and do not have a stable job. Men with insufficient sense of responsibility may even break up for this, let alone get married.
4. Appearance conditions
Men have different standards for choosing a girlfriend compared to choosing a wife. A girlfriend can be said to be a sexy woman with heavy makeup, but when it comes to getting married, it's not the best choice. Men who think they are too beautiful will face more temptations due to their lack of confidence and fear of being hooded after marriage. Men prefer ordinary looking women. In terms of height, men generally prefer a tall figure, and they will also consider the height issues of the next generation.
5. Relationship with one's own parents
The issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem to completely solve. Nowadays, many men also attach great importance to the relationship between their girlfriends and their parents before getting married. If there are already many problems during love and they cannot win the love of the expectant mother-in-law, men will basically end the relationship rationally. Because they also worry about the impact of mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship on family harmony after marriage.
6. Women's Work
Men usually do not have high demands on women's work abilities, and even just feel that having a legitimate and stable income is enough. But don't think they don't mind the nature of your job at all. Firstly, the vast majority of men won't choose strong women or women who hold higher positions than themselves, as men's self-esteem is at the mercy.
Secondly, men also do not like secretaries very much, as in their eyes, most secretaries have intricate relationships with their bosses; Men also don't like women who work in nightclubs, as there are many temptations and opportunities for infidelity. The most ideal marriage partner for men is preferably a civil servant, with a stable and not too busy job. The nature of the job can also give men a long face, and men are actually very practical guys.
If women can understand the things that their beloved man cares about and cares about, they must give him more love and patience. More importantly, establishing good communication with him is also very important.
