What do men and women think when facing setbacks in marriage? From the perspective of mental health, men and women have different thoughts when facing marriage setbacks. The next editor will analyze it in detail.
1. Men are cowardly animals and do not want to be single. When getting married and frustrated, the first thing they think of is infidelity rather than divorce
Firstly, men are lonely and cowardly animals who do not want to be single. They have been unused to doing household chores since childhood, so divorce means being alone and life is very inconvenient, so they refuse to divorce. Secondly, when men are young, having strong sexual desire and losing stable relationships with women can be a quite fatal blow to them. Therefore, even if there is no relationship with current women, if they cannot find their next lover, they will not make up their minds to divorce.
This is a behavior pattern unique to men. Even if they are not in love, they are still very indifferent, and they always seek love without caring. Even if they really have the idea of divorce, they will not initiate a divorce until they can't find the next replacement. Once again, men tend to face pressure in an evasive manner, cheating, and quickly escaping to the arms of other women is a way to relieve their stress. So seeing men having more extramarital affairs than women is much more common.
2. Women always consider marriage as their first priority when encountering setbacks in marriage, as they always strive for the sake of breaking things rather than being ruined
More wives want to leave that house and don't want to have no taste every day. When a woman marries a man, her greater hope is to lead a happy and stable life. If a man cannot give it to her, a woman naturally has a strong desire to leave. Therefore, resolving issues through divorce has become a priority for female friends. In addition, women cannot tolerate bad relationships, and the way to end bad relationships is to end marriage.
In summary, when facing setbacks in marriage, men's first consideration is not to solve the problems in marriage, but to find a mistress or cheat. Women believe in divorce, but like men, they don't want to solve problems. Whether it's infidelity or divorce, it's not the best way.