Post Date April, 15 2023
Two men and women can become a couple and form a family, which is a lifelong fate. According to the research, every couple will have 400 thoughts of divorce in their life's relationship, so even the sweetest relationship will occasionally have disputes and quarrels, but some things are the bottom line of maintaining a good relationship between husband and wife, and can't be done repeatedly, otherwise the love will disappear, the family will also fade, and finally can only break up. So what should couples not do?
1、 Turn over old accounts
Any problem between husband and wife should be solved immediately, and any dissatisfaction must be raised in time. If you choose to endure now and choose not to say, then please endure for a lifetime, otherwise it will lay a ray for the future happy life. When you are discontented with him one day, these discontents will become sharp weapons. If you are quick, it will not help solve the problem, but add fuel to the fire. People who like to turn over old accounts always have things hidden in their hearts. They are preoccupied, which is not conducive to a harmonious relationship between husband and wife.
2、 Affect the family
Whether there is a dispute or a quarrel, do not involve the other party's family, let alone take the other party's family as the target of attack. "Your family is so small minded, and you are just like your mother." "Why are you and your brother so reckless, and they can't think before doing things. Once such words are said and spread out, the relatives can't pass them.
3、 Question the other party's ability
Some women like to compare with each other very much. They are always ready to say, "That husband Wang sent flowers again today, and that husband Li sent bags again. What about you? I don't know what I'm doing all day. I'm too busy to see money as a ghost.". Some men will also fight back: "Can you find a decent job? You can't support yourself with this salary". These are relatively light. The most taboo is to question the sexual ability of the other party. Think about it. Who can stand it? The quarrel is light.
4、 Try to change the other party
It is touching to change for him because of love; Taking love as the reason to desperately ask the other party to change for themselves is frightening. "Don't you say that you love me? Then why don't you want to make such a little change for me?" In love, it may be interesting to play coquettish occasionally. But in marriage, you must not. Because people always make progress, you want him to change here today and there tomorrow. Maybe one day, he will no longer be the person you love.
5、 Sleeping in separate rooms
Some couples will sleep in separate rooms after quarrelling, and some couples choose to sleep in separate rooms in order to sleep comfortably. But the more people get along with each other, the closer they are. Every day, with the same quilt and bed, we snuggle up and talk to each other before going to bed. What are the contradictions that are difficult to solve.
It is no wonder that the old saying goes that there is no good chance to resolve the embarrassment if there is a quarrel at the head of the bed and a quarrel at the end of the bed. Once the bed is separated for a long time, it will greatly affect the emotional communication between husband and wife. It is difficult to sleep together again.
As the saying goes, it is easy to fall in love but difficult to stay together. Everyone has their own temper. We should learn to deal with the contradictions between husband and wife maturely as we grow older. We should give more tolerance and love to the people who accompany us all our life. Don't say something hurtful or do something hurtful in anger. You should know that these things are like nails inserted in others' hearts. Even if they are pulled out, they will leave scars, Never do it again.
