Being able to get in touch again after a breakup is the first step in salvaging this relationship. Getting in touch again doesn't mean that the two people are back together. In fact, reconnection is only a process, and there are many possibilities for the future trend of emotional development. One possibility: After reconnecting, the heart knot between the two people still remains unresolved, leading to one party being angry again and blackmailing the other. Possibility 2: The relationship between two people is neither hot nor cold, and their respective lives are like two parallel lines that no longer intersect. Although they have contact information with each other, they are hardly connected. Possibility 3: Two people will clear up their past grievances and the old love will revive. So how do you make the relationship between two people develop towards the third possibility as much as possible?
First of all, make sure to find an opportunity to meet the other party after reconnecting.
Although it is said that the internet and telephone can also communicate with each other, neither of them is as enthusiastic as meeting. Because sometimes it takes action to prove that one person feels the love of another. "Through the internet or phone, what two people communicate is only verbal emotions, while there are very few emotions at the real action level.". Therefore, it is important to find opportunities to meet with each other after reconnecting. The way to meet can be to watch a movie together, have a meal together, go hiking together, and so on. The form can be freely chosen, but the purpose is to make the other party feel their love during face-to-face interaction. For example, when two people eat together and you specifically order the other person's favorite dish before, the other person will definitely feel that you have always cared about and loved her. During the meal, serving food to the other person can also give the other person a feeling of being taken care of. It would be great if we could take a walk together after dinner. If the opportunity is ripe, sneaking the other person into your arms and having intimate physical contact can greatly promote the relationship between two people.
Secondly, be sure to clearly indicate your attitude to the other party.
"If you really want to continue with him, when you get in touch, you can clearly indicate that you want to have a good attitude.". After all, two people used to have a certain emotional foundation and a certain understanding of each other, so both sides should have a clear psychological understanding of where this relationship should go. Everyone doesn't really need much time to think. Since the other party is willing to contact again, it indicates that the other party is still full of a bit of hope for this relationship. At this time, you must clearly indicate to the other party that you want to reconcile your attitude, which can also give the other party a clearer choice. If it is appropriate, then continue together, even if it is not appropriate, also give a pleasant word. Even if it takes some time to think, there should be a clear deadline.