Post Date November, 16 2024
Some female friends lament that married life is like completing tasks, mostly just to fulfill their wife's obligations and have no fun. At the same time, they are also worried that their husband is not in love so far and that they are not normal, so they want to know more about sex knowledge.
In fact, the human sexual response cycle can be divided into excitation period, plateau period, climax period, and regression period, but both men and women have their own characteristics. For example, men generally can quickly reach the excitement stage and crave immediate sexual intercourse from the beginning; Women need to be fully stimulated, such as caressing, hugging, and having continuous romantic conversations, in order to enter the excitement period. In addition, the process of male sexual excitement disappearing quickly, and women who often sleep loudly after sexual intercourse need to continue to caress and warm themselves during the disappearance period, making their body and mind more satisfied.
If both men and women can not understand their own and each other's sexual characteristics and requirements well, and can not communicate sexual feelings well in sexual life, it will cause disharmony and dysfunction of sexual life, and eventually lead to marital conflict and an increase in the incidence of extramarital sex, sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS, social instability and a series of social problems.
Women also had sexual fantasy and expectations of sexual life when they first got married. Later, the current situation was caused by the disharmony of sexual life, which should belong to secondary low sexual desire. Low libido is not innate, but often the result of long-term reinforcement of many negative factors and misinformation in the mind. The main reasons are centered around social and psychological factors, such as disharmonious marital relationships, lack of communication in sexual life, insufficient sexual knowledge and skills, high work pressure, poor family living conditions, and the influence of parental sexual biases, which may lead to low sexual desire. So, the most important thing for their couple at present is to strengthen communication and share their sexual feelings with each other, without the need for medication.
So, as we just said, how can we make our wives enjoy having sex?
There should be a change in the mindset of both parties. The role played by women in sexual life should not only be passively accepted, but can also be actively demanded. Women also have the right to enjoy sex. In sexual life, husbands should encourage their wives to share their sexual experiences and encourage them to actively participate in sexual activities. In addition, when having sex, the husband should consider the wife's mood and pay attention to the caresses, hugs, and warmth needed in front of the room based on the characteristics of female sexual activity. Of course, in daily life, it is inseparable from the consideration of the husband, the harmony of the family, and the stimulation of the wife's sexual desire.
