Some studies say that men have sexual fantasies every six minutes. Many times, actions that appear simple and clear to a woman are associated with sex in her eyes. He created a gray zone for himself, for which he daydreamed, and sexual fantasy became his vitamin. What are the occasions and behaviors that easily evoke sexual associations in men?
1. The female supervisor praised him
Simply put, just because of his outstanding performance, the tall and beautiful single female boss gave him a praise, smile, and encouragement.
Grey Zone: He's wondering if she's interested in me?
You can think of him as being self indulgent, but men often feel that this is what is called male courage. He is very confident in himself. He may wander in bed late at night, feeling that the female boss is lonely and needs him to comfort him. A late night phone call, a Xixiangji style midnight stay at the door, the moon is dark and the wind is high, mysterious, exciting, and he can't help but indulge in fantasies.
Why is he prone to sexual ambiguity with single female superiors? This is related to the "face first" complex hidden in men's hearts, just like many women's deep-seated attachment to wealthy individuals. If one can obtain wealth and status without labor, I believe no man is unwilling to give it a try. This is not only because of "facial expression", but also means: firstly, he is handsome and has sexual value; Secondly, when other men work hard all their lives, they can obtain wealth through shortcuts - why not do such a good thing?
The global Durex sex survey report points out that sexual fantasy is the most important sexual fantasy for men.
Sexual Ambiguity Index: ★★★★★
2. Dreams and fantasies on the road
The people were very crowded, and she was right in front of him, indifferent
Perfume, white back, and the cleavage under the summer skirt.
Grey Zone: Did she have no intention? But in his opinion, perhaps she meant to be next to herself.
The Beijing subway is said to be the severely affected area of Xianzhushou, and most women have experienced being harassed in the subway. It is unknown whether there are women harassing men in the subway, but it is true that close contact in the subway is a time when men are distracted. He knew he couldn't act recklessly, but the more he dared not act recklessly, the easier it was for him to develop associations. Perhaps it was a romantic encounter, perhaps it was a sudden arrival of love. When women search for romance all over the world, men are also searching for the romance in their fantasies. Although the train had reached its destination, this did not affect him in using ambiguous fantasies as a vitamin on his way to work during the long and tedious journey.