Post Date December, 03 2023
What is the biggest concern for girls before having sex? When men and women fall in love and love becomes strong, many people hope to use sexual behavior to strengthen their emotions, but some girls don't think so at all. So what are girls worried about before having sex?
1. Unexpected pregnancy
For girls, the biggest concern after sexual activity is unexpected pregnancy. When men can lift their pants and go to work, girls are more worried about the consequences of impulsiveness. Although there is TT now, girls are still very afraid psychologically and physically. Once pregnant, there are only two outcomes.
The first method is to knock out the child, which clearly causes the greatest harm to girls. If the surgery is not successful, it may lead to physical weakness. The second type is for two people to hastily get married and have children. Although it may seem perfect, in the eyes of girls, the "wedding dream" from childhood to adulthood may be destroyed. Worried about getting bigger every day, I have to repeatedly streamline my wedding process and preparation time.
Both of these outcomes are not what girls want to see. So sometimes due to their concerns, they may develop resistance that they don't want to have a relationship with you.
Suggestion: It is recommended to popularize some gender knowledge to her, so that she can understand scientific contraceptive methods and pregnancy probability. Although sometimes these are difficult to say, in fact, after communication, it is beneficial and harmless for your relationship.
2. Afraid of making your partner dissatisfied
Girls are just as concerned about their body shape as boys are about whether they can do it. The more girls like you, the more they worry about their body shape. After all, it belongs to being honest with each other, and girls who are not confident will still worry about themselves. Even whether one's makeup looks good or not, and whether one's posture is elegant or not, can cause anxiety for girls. Because the more familiar you are with yourself, the more you will magnify your shortcomings. Assuming that a girl already has a good figure, she will still be sensitive to herself
dissatisfied.
Suggestion: Before rolling sheets with a girl, boys should try to praise her as much as possible, increase her confidence, and help her break free from her inferiority complex, in order to showcase a better self.
3. Afraid of boys looking down on themselves
Boys may view 'sex' as a necessary mission and need in their lives, just like eating and sleeping on their own. There is not a strong sense of ceremony. Girls are different. They take this matter seriously and feel that handing themselves over to a man requires a lot of courage. There may only be one time in one's life, handing over one's intact self to a boy. If they easily have sex with a boy, they are even more worried that the boy will look down on them and feel frivolous. Or rather, will the two of them gradually drift apart after a relationship has occurred. If one day two people break up, they may be accused of being indecent and reckless.
Suggestion: Girls' concerns are unreasonable, so what boys need to do is to take more care of girls after having a relationship, so that they can feel the courage and determination to work together with them towards the future.
