Post Date December, 03 2023
Leftover women are something that we all don't want to mention, and these types of people have relatively high requirements for mate selection. Therefore, in life, we still need to pay more attention to them. The reason for being left behind is definitely due to her own reasons, except for the one she loves, no one can occupy her heart. So what are the common psychology of leftover women and the reasons for becoming leftover women? Interested friends can follow the editor to take a look at this article.
What are the common psychological traits of leftover women?
1. Casual psychology.
Talk about it, play it, play it, and scatter it. Treating love as a game and treating the other person like a monkey, without respecting love and the outcome of the other person, is like being abandoned by love and being abandoned by the other person.
2. Narcissistic psychology.
Of course, there are also some older girls who feel that they are the best and cannot see their own shortcomings and shortcomings, but it is precisely because of her narcissism that she is not likable.
3. Passive psychology.
Enclosed in one's own small circle, afraid to venture out boldly, with limited exposure to people, the number of objects to choose from is becoming smaller and smaller, and the scope for one's own choices is also becoming smaller and smaller. Only when you go out bravely can you discover Xintiandi.
4. Perfect psychology.
Some older female youth choose their partners according to the patterns in movies, TV dramas, or textbooks. This is not just about finding partners, but also about finding idols. You know, idols cannot live a life. Living with idols really makes you nauseous.
5. Fear mentality.
Once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of a well rope. Due to being hurt, I can no longer believe in emotions, especially love. Remember, love is inherently illusory and easily changeable, but not everyone is a love scammer. When fate comes, the person you hit comes, and true love comes.
6. Make do with psychology.
Due to the delay in finding the right person, many older female youth have gone from one extreme to the other, and under various pressures, have developed a mentality of casually finding a suitable one. This is not only irresponsible for oneself, but also irresponsible for the other half. Many marriages that make do are unhappy.
7. Reverse psychology.
They idealize love and lack a sense of reality. They always hope that their love is as romantic as that described in the novel: when the moon is clear and the wind is clear, prince charming suddenly falls from the sky; Love at first sight, the flower of love suddenly miraculously shines brightly. It should be noted that marriage is about living a real life and choosing a partner with a down-to-earth attitude. Why waste your youth in your dreams?
8. Closed mind.
Many older girls are not good at socializing and are unwilling to take a proactive attitude towards marriage issues. They prefer to be alone, which leads to a small social circle and reduces their chances of choosing a partner. Their mentality of waiting for volunteers to take bait only makes them particularly "elevated" and also makes a considerable number of men who are interested in them hesitant. Moreover, marriage is a two-way choice. If we keep our hands on it and turn it into a one-way street, wouldn't it be like we suddenly lose half of our chances?
9. Inferiority complex.
This type of woman believes that it is shameful to be alone in the boudoir after the age of 30. Therefore, they are most afraid of others discussing marriage, and are also most afraid of others asking about their marriage in a caring tone. They are pessimistic and disappointed with themselves, thinking that love will never come again, and they will never have a chance with love again. They either gradually close their hearts and do not pursue, even if the true man arrives, they will "knock ten times and nine times cannot open"; Either go to the other extreme, succumb to the pressure and influence of society, parents, and friends, adopt a follow the crowd approach, and hastily find a partner to make do.
9 Reasons to Become a Leftover Girl
1. A woman with a withdrawn, irritable, and neurotic personality.
The type of woman that the editor dislikes the most is a woman who is always nagging and suspicious. I believe most men don't like such women either. Because having such a woman around makes living too tiring and maddening. It's best for women with this personality to optimize themselves.
2. With a distinct and strong personality, he is resolute and resolute, and men are intimidated at the sight of him.
Most of these women belong to the elite of the workplace, typical female strongmen, who appear to many people with a very strong appearance, never talking or laughing, only knowing how to work hard. A friend joked that such a woman is even more male than a man. Who dares to marry her? The implication is that there is a lot of pressure and it cannot be controlled.
3. Having a high eye for mate selection and being overly picky.
Many women are very picky and demanding when choosing a husband. I am very picky about a man's appearance, height, education, work, family, finances, etc. I wish all the advantages of a man from all over the world were concentrated on her ideal husband. The pursuit of perfection and excellence is undeniable, but there are very few men who are 100% perfect.
4. I have been deeply hurt by men and dare not hope for love.
Some women are left behind and become leftover because they have been hurt by those bad men before, and from then on, they feel disgusted and despised towards men, feeling that all men in the world are not good things. When friends introduce their boyfriends or when parents arrange blind dates, they have no interest at all. Over time, others have already married, and I am still hesitating, consuming my youth and charm.
5. The social circle is narrow, and the circle of friends is very small.
Nowadays, society is a rapidly developing one, with a fast pace of life. Every day when you open your eyes, you have to work hard. Besides work, I still work, and I have very little free time, which leads to a narrow social circle and only a few friends I know. After a long time, I have been living in a small circle all day, not to mention looking forward to a love, without even the most basic happiness in life.
6. Influenced by society, women value material things over emotions.
When I say this, some women may be unhappy and say that I don't speak well. I'm just saying this to make one point. Nowadays, many women only value houses, cars, and tickets. As long as men have these things, they will definitely give priority and even pay great attention. So as you can see, many wealthy bosses in their forties and fifties are surrounded by a charming young girl, which is the mischief of material thought.
7. Holding a negative attitude of waiting.
Many women, even though they have met a very nice man, always feel dissatisfied and fantasize that the next man may be better. As a result, it was found that there were a large number of men who met, and the quality of those men was getting worse and worse, and they all felt that they were not as good as the first one. In the long wait, both body and mind are exhausted, and what comes with waiting is being left behind. Rather than saying that leftover women are left behind, it is better to say that they are trapped in their own cocoons.
8. The ultimate beautiful woman, but she is a water born beauty.
Many beautiful women, relying on their own advantages, often interact with many men and appear everywhere, leaving a very bad impression that they are too frivolous and fickle. Even stepping on N boats, until the boat capsizes and someone dies, who else dares to approach you? Such a woman is too easy to get caught up in trouble, so it's better to stay away early. Beauty was originally an advantage, but now it has become a disadvantage, becoming a leftover woman and no one wants it anymore.
9. Study hard, do not eat fireworks among people.
Among the leftover women team, there are a considerable number of highly educated women, as well as many female doctors and so on. These women are all excellent in all aspects, but why are they still left behind? Because they study hard all day long, only enjoying themselves in books, not indulging in worldly pleasures, and not understanding love. Conquered one scientific theory after another and won one article after another
With a degree, N years have passed, and I have grown old and left behind.
Conclusion: Women still need to have a good kiss, perhaps there are good men waiting for you there. Don't miss this opportunity, and also pay more attention to women's mentality. Don't be too negative, we still need to be sunny. A girl who loves to laugh always has good luck. Give yourself a chance and give the other person a chance, maybe you two are a perfect match.
