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What are the reasons for an affair between a couple? Be careful, these things can lead to the other half cheating
What are the reasons for marital infidelity? The divorce rate in society is getting higher and higher, and infidelity is an important factor leading to divorce between couples. So what are the reasons for couples having an affair? Below, the editor will introduce it to you.
1、 What are the reasons for marital infidelity
The family is the cell of society, the bond that maintains the relationship between husband and wife, and the emotional and psychological needs. Once this bond undergoes a qualitative change, the marital relationship loses its value of existence. There are several common reasons for couples having extramarital affairs.
1. Lonely psychology. Due to work reasons or separation from two places, some husbands are often not around their wives. If such a husband lacks a sense of family responsibility, does not care about his wife, and does not often express his longing in various ways, over time, it will inevitably make the relationship between the husband and wife tend to become indifferent, making the wife feel lonely and lacking spiritual support. At this point, if the right opposite sex is met, the wife will lose the ability to resist temptation, leading to the occurrence of extramarital affairs.
2. A sense of resentment. Sexual activity is a very important aspect of marital life. If a partner neglects to provide warmth to the other party due to sexual dysfunction, busy pursuit of career, or if the husband is addicted to alcohol and sex outside and cannot meet the wife's normal physiological needs, over time, it will cause the wife to develop resentment, which is highly likely to lead to red apricot blossom.
3. A sense of loss. This mentality is often seen in a lack of understanding before marriage, falling in love at first sight, and getting married hastily; Or it could be that after a short period of love, the rice is cooked and cooked, and you can't help it. After living together for a long time after marriage, they gradually discover that each other has many bad habits or certain physiological defects. In this situation, it is easy to develop a sense of psychological loss, leading to the emergence of dissent.
4. Psychological compliance. Some women commit themselves to men they don't like for a certain purpose. Due to their lack of emotional foundation with their husbands, once their goals are achieved, they will feel that their husbands are either old or ugly, either ending in divorce or holding onto a different pipa.
5. Revenge mentality. Some husbands are unfaithful to their wives and engage in extramarital affairs. Once things are exposed, it often leads to an unhappy ending. If the consideration of being a wife is not appropriate, it may lead to retaliatory feelings in anger: since you can flirt with others outside, why can't I seek refuge?
6. Superiority mentality. Some wives have higher education or higher status than their husbands. If a husband is unwilling to actively strive, it is easy for his wife to hate him and feel that he is not worthy of him. So wives who have better conditions than their husbands in all aspects are more likely to have extramarital affairs, because there are likely to be stronger men around them than their husbands.
Given the above situation, in order to improve the quality of marriage, both spouses need to understand the various psychological trajectories that lead to extramarital love, strengthen communication, start from themselves, and adjust the relationship between spouses in a timely manner to continuously elevate it. Only in this way can we ensure the stability of the family and the happiness of marriage.
2、 Tips for getting along with a spouse
1. Be sincere
If the other party does something that doesn't meet your expectations, then you should talk to them and spread the matter out. Perhaps there is no need to talk to the other person immediately, let alone in an argument, but rather to love them even more, to talk to each other in a calm and calm manner, and to be able to speak without hesitation. Otherwise, how can the other party know what you like and don't like?
2. Forgive the other party
Forgiving the other party's shortcomings and weaknesses should allow them to have some shortcomings and weaknesses, and one should smile and forgive them. Anyone who insists on doing so has a ticket to happiness.
3. Should learn to compliment
Learn to compliment the other person by doing so every day, saying personal things to them, discussing their appearance, smile, life with them, and so on. If you invest in Tao, he/she will repay Li.
4. Reduce the burden on the other party
Everyone has their frustrations, and mutual guidance between couples can make the two hearts tightly connected.
5. Never fall asleep in an argument
We should follow the principle of sleeping and say sweet words of love before going to bed.