In love, many women worry about whether a man will marry them. Some men like to play delaying tricks. Some women exhaust their youth but fail to get married with them. When a man refuses to marry, it may be that you are really inappropriate, or that you do not meet certain requirements of a man for his wife. So, what are the manifestations of good women in the eyes of men? Come quickly to understand the psychology of men.
1. Women must be hygienic, love cleanliness
Although they are lazy and dirty themselves, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash their face or feet, who is indifferent to a chaotic home, because they believe that their family and their woman are their true face.
2. The more women love men, the braver they become
A man does not refuse to fulfill his obligations to his family and women. If he can clearly know how much his wife loves him, he will selflessly sacrifice everything for his family and wife. On the contrary, if a man is unsure or even unnecessarily worried about his family and women's feelings, he will act like a rogue. When it comes to families and their own women, men like to hear answers like Mrs. Eisenhower's: "The greatest career life can bring to a woman is to be a wife."
3. Tolerance truly understands men's shortcomings and faults
Men attach far more importance to their families and women than women imagine. They are always accustomed to using their families and women as safe havens and safe havens. Therefore, they hope that their success and failure can be fully accommodated here, and they will always welcome them back with open arms.
4. Men need the title of head of family
Women always like to compete with men on the issue of the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence something. In fact, what men require is just a status quo. How can they be so lazy and take the responsibility of buying vegetables and washing dishes on their own?
5. Men are afraid of loneliness
Psychologically, men are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. "Single men go out for a drink every night, or sleep at a friend's house. It's not that they enjoy drinking or getting very close to their friends. The real reason for them is that they're afraid of being alone.". Therefore, married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and lonely. So when men lose track of their women, or they come back late or even don't come back, they panic like naked nuns in a busy city.
6. Don't expect men to have the same appearance in their homes
Women often complain that a man looks like a different person at home and abroad. Why is he always so polite to outsiders, but he acts like a tyrant to me? Why can't he treat me better too? In fact, women don't have to worry about it. "Politeness has always been a social necessity, and excessive politeness can do harm to the family without any benefit.". When a man is very polite to a woman, it only means that he has lost his love for her or has done something wrong to her.
7. Men also have jealousy
Men are no less jealous than women, and there are far more men who are prone to life-threatening battles and die under the sword of duels between lovers than women who are jealous and tear their faces. If a woman truly loves her man, she should strive to understand the man's state of mind mixed with self-esteem and vanity, and be careful with men's paranoia and speculation.
8. Don't talk freely about what's wrong at home
"Domestic ugliness should not be publicized. The rights and wrongs in the family are inherently inexplicable matters. If added to external rumors, men's self-esteem will definitely collapse.". At that time, even if a man intends to reconcile, it is difficult to ride a tiger. If a woman really wants to solve a problem, her only option is to close the door and negotiate slowly, because the principle of domestic affairs for men is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in internal affairs.
9. Don't compare your men to others
In the eyes of men, comparing a woman's own man and family with others is a serious betrayal of her own man and family. They cannot kindly understand a woman's original intention and wishes, and only subjectively believe that a woman is criticizing them and expressing dissatisfaction. They will also think passionately, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?
10. Don't confront a man when he is angry
The pressure and hardships that men experience in society are something that women cannot experience, and this negative emotion is likely to be brought home by them. Therefore, men often find fault with women or throw tantrums at them without any reason. When they get angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but are just venting their depressed feelings. Men most need women's understanding and acceptance, and they need women to pay a considerable price of grievance.
As a woman, you must love cleanliness, which has nothing to do with your personality. Always having a clean home environment will make a person's life more comfortable. And when a woman is striving to be a good woman in the eyes of men, she must not blindly lose herself. She must not always cater to the needs of men. As a woman, she is most confident and charming. Only by knowing how to love herself can others love you too.