Sexual Health
What are the most fearful aspects of marital sex? These dangerous characters are the most sexually destructive
Women, especially those who are married, should pay attention to potential dangerous individuals who can affect their marital life and be wary of these dangerous individuals. Otherwise, your husband may not belong to you unintentionally. Let's take a look at potential danger figures that can affect the couple's life.
1. Female subordinates
There are hidden rules everywhere in the workplace, although many girls complain about sex and do not want to be hidden by rules. However, there are many women who are more sexually inclined, and they are not particularly disliked behind hidden rules, because hidden rules can help them avoid detours in the workplace and being hidden is a shortcut.
These mistresses know their husbands better than their wives. In addition to using affection to tie men down, they also take care of them carefully. Tired cheating men love this trick. They know their boss and boss are married and are willing to give up their status. It is precisely their selfless dedication that gives cheating men a sense of guilt and makes them even more reluctant to give up.
Once you discover that your husband has a close relationship with a female subordinate, as a wife, you should first see it in your eyes and keep it in your heart. You should find excuses to visit your husband's company, show off the love between husband and wife and family happiness in his company, create conditions to chat up with that female subordinate, and quickly become friends. Then, you should find opportunities to sidetrack and gossip with the female subordinate, so that she can be impressed by your wisdom and magnanimity, Also due to being too familiar with each other, their interests fade away.
2. Divorced Women
Divorced women often snatch other people's husbands because of loneliness, and being able to snatch them over can make them feel proud. They believe that their lover has many advantages, such as having money to rely on in their daily life, having a stable career, knowing better than their previous husband to love and comfort themselves, and being afraid of being abandoned by their lover and not being able to find another man. They will have no scruples and no shame at all.
Although divorced women disregard their own face, they also have a weakness, which is the fear of harming their children. Every woman has a strong maternal instinct, and they can abandon everything for the sake of their children. This feeling is particularly strong for divorced women. Because she believes that her husband is gone, her happy marriage is gone, and only her own children still belong to her. For children, they are doubly affectionate.
Therefore, when a divorced woman comes to grab your husband, you can still use your children to write articles. You can let your child influence him, or find her child, and use her child to intimidate her. She will surely gradually give up fighting for the sake of the child.
3. Girlfriend
Many female friends have one or two best friends. All the grievances encountered in marriage will be told to her best friend, and she will also bring her into her own life, such as frequent shopping and dining together. Perhaps you don't think there's much danger in this, but sometimes, danger happens right next to you, and the less likely things are, the easier they are to happen. Nowadays, many girlfriends will become contenders for your husband.
Don't be soft hearted when dealing with your best friend who is trying to steal your husband. If you are soft hearted, you are destined to fail. Of course, starting from your husband is also quite difficult, and you can only start from your best friend. You can pretend not to know and tell her in front of her, letting her know that you have learned about your husband's infidelity.
Now your husband can give up on himself for your best friend, and tomorrow he will also give up on your best friend for another woman. Because my best friend has known you for many years, I am very familiar with your personality and still trust you. Therefore, what you say will definitely have a certain impact. It's really not enough, you can intervene in external pressure through your best friend's friends or family. She probably doesn't want to ruin her reputation in her circle of friends, so she will definitely make a choice.
What things in marriage can affect marital relationships
1. Don't deceive in marriage
Husband and wife should have shared joys and sorrows, but if one party finds some excuses to deceive the other party and swindle the money out for some improper purposes, such as gambling or giving money to women outside. When the truth is revealed, it can immediately lead to a crisis in the marital relationship. If the economic foundation of the family is shaken as a result, it will definitely shake the emotional foundation.
2. No extramarital affairs
If one spouse has an extramarital affair, but the other party is unaware or uncertain, the relationship between the couple may still be sustainable, especially for those who do not want to divorce but only seek some extramarital romance, extramarital affairs may not necessarily lead to the breakdown of the relationship. But if one party makes the extramarital affair public, it undoubtedly directly challenges the marriage. At this point, the other party cannot tolerate it.
3. Don't involve the other party's close relatives
Some people say that fighting between couples is like cursing or love, but only the couple knows what the degree is. Cursing the other person may not be fatal, but no matter what conflicts arise, one should not curse the other person's relatives, especially their biological parents. This is even worse than directly cursing the other person, making it difficult for the other person to accept.
Because Chinese people value filial piety the most, as couples who are not related by blood but are closest, if one party scolds the other party's parents, it will definitely make the other party feel angry and may immediately slap the other party in the face.
4. Men don't hit their wives with their hands
Between husband and wife, men are physically strong. If they start beating their wives, they will definitely bring down their emotions. It may not be that women can't bear it, so they have to file for divorce. Even if the woman reluctantly forgives the other person in the end, there is always a scar in her subsequent relationship. Especially once a man does something, he may not necessarily do it again in future relationships. Sometimes, when he becomes impulsive, he will do it again until it becomes a habit. No matter how much emotion there is, it will be destroyed.
The stronger a man is in terms of physical strength when dealing with emotions, the less he should engage in violence. Even if the relationship between two people is completely broken, there is no need to engage in violence towards the other person. This is not like women hitting men, it can make men wake up, and sometimes it is also an education.
5. Eliminate unethical feelings
As couples, many often live together with other family members or have frequent interactions, but if there is an immoral relationship, such as a wife having an improper relationship with an uncle or father-in-law, or a husband having an affair with an aunt. That will directly lead to the breakdown of the marital relationship, even if it is maintained for some reason, the marital relationship will still be distorted. Therefore, both spouses should consciously hold onto their respective responsibilities in the family, love each other closely, and be polite and courteous.
In some special circumstances between couples, infidelity may occur. If this kind of infidelity is just an interlude in the couple's life, it's okay to let it pass. However, if it's an immoral relationship, it may lead to the other party directly being sent to the "Valley of Desperate Love".
6. Don't be infatuated with netizens
Believe in online dating, go online whenever you have the opportunity, and find excuses to date netizens. Even be infatuated with netizens, find excuses, or run away without reason. Finally, he was cheated of money and had no way out, but ran back. This type of woman can harm her husband, forcing them to make up their minds to make a clean break and take an early break.
7. Don't let outsiders interfere with each other
When conflicts arise between spouses, it is already a matter between them. However, if there is something between the spouses, they add fuel and vinegar to their parents and let their superiors intervene in their affairs. Especially when using one's own parents to exert pressure on the other party, over time, it will inevitably cause the other party to feel serious discomfort or damage their self-esteem, ultimately leading to the end of the marital relationship, often involving family members. Contradictions between husband and wife not only cannot be resolved, but often worsen, and in severe cases, they may even divorce.
8. Don't insult the other party and vent your anger
Between husband and wife, it is important to be reasonable and say things. If one party is prone to using vulgar language or insulting the other party, it will definitely cause the other party's mental breakdown. Because insults indicate that one spouse no longer considers the other person at all.
In a married life, it is not as simple as in a romantic relationship, but involves two families and the arrival of new life. Therefore, maintaining a good marriage is very difficult, and the key is to create an intimate and harmonious relationship between the couple together. On the other hand, the harmony of sexual life can create the love between husband and wife. Therefore, it is advisable to keep the freshness of sexual love. Women can use Durex to feel private and tight dumbbells. Through the combination of light and heavy dumbbells, together with customized advanced training courses, help women find the most suitable pelvic floor muscle training method, grasp the inner beauty in easy and effective pelvic floor muscle training, and become sexy and tight women again, Make sex more harmonious and perfect, and couples more loving!