A person may fall in love several times in their lifetime, but their first love only occurs once. After choosing their crush, young men and women begin to fall in love. Its success or failure will directly affect a person's future love and sexual beliefs.
Most young people are somewhat shy at the beginning of their first love, striving to have a stable and natural tryst with each other, but often unable to adjust their inner passion satisfactorily. Generally speaking, there are not many opportunities for sexual impulses during first love, which is largely a spiritual pursuit.
After entering the stage of passionate love, the psychological state changes greatly. Young men and women appear enthusiastic, unrestrained, and even "out of their wits", and strong sexual impulses also follow. When passion exceeds reason, a series of abnormal phenomena can occur, such as treating the other person's weaknesses as strengths, disregarding social organization constraints for trysts, and reducing work and learning efficiency. As someone once said, "Young men and women often have the lowest level of intelligence in a passionate relationship.
The first characteristic of passionate love is exclusivity. This refers to a psychological state of resisting any heterosexual approaching their passionate partner. The so-called jealousy mentality in love is a reflection of this characteristic. Indeed, any young man or woman demands that their passionate partner remain loyal and unyielding to them; This is also one of the guarantees for maintaining the monogamous marriage system. The manifestations of exclusivity are diverse: light individuals are uncomfortable when they see their objects approaching the opposite sex; The heavyweight may manifest as being furious or arguing wildly.
What are the manifestations of passionate love between men and women
Excessive exclusivity has two negative consequences. One is mutual suspicion, which can lead to love setbacks or punishment of innocent friends; The other is to use sexual behavior to constrain the relationship between the two parties, thus resulting in some bitter consequences.
The second characteristic of passionate love is volatility. This is one of the manifestations of emotional instability in youth. When happy, smile and dance with hands and feet; When things don't go well, panic, depression, and strong volatility may lead to some malignant events. When suspecting that the other party is deviating from oneself, it may lead to extreme hatred and murder, as well as mental disorder or suicide.