The infidelity is a problem that many marriage families need to face. Many couples have their marriage ended because of the infidelity of the other party. But in addition to the physical infidelity, there is also psychological infidelity. Now let's see what the psychological infidelity of the couple shows.
Men who do not love to go home are likely to be mentally derailed
One of the couples who have mental infidelity will find it boring to go home and often find excuses not to go home. Even if they go home, they prefer to be alone. If the other party is used to watching TV after dinner, he or she will play computer or find an excuse to do other things. Even if you are idle and bored, you don't want to have fun with the other party. When some couples encounter this kind of situation, they think that the blankness of marriage is inevitable, but in fact, this kind of blankness hides a deep crisis.
Be inexplicably bored and refuse to leave people thousands of miles away
The person who has spiritual infidelity will have an object of empathy in his heart. His or her attention will often be on other objects. He or she will find the life of husband and wife very boring or uninteresting, and will also feel that the current partner is just cumbersome and redundant. Therefore, when the other party has something to ask, or the other party wants to take the initiative to make love, they will often be rejected.
Compare problems and complain about cheating
In marriage, when you look at the other side, you should blame the other side for everything, even a small matter, and deliberately pick on the other side. Even if the other side deliberately behaves, it will always fail to meet his (her) wishes. The more you compare the other side with others, the less interesting you will be.
Not willing to make up for the other party. If you are in a hurry, you will ignore it
He/she is unwilling to make up for the other party. Once he/she is in a hurry, even if the other party is crying with grievances, he/she will not bother to make up for it. Instead, he/she will leave the other party to do his/her own business or go for recreation. In daily life, the attitude is neither warm nor cold. It is rare to make friends with the other party on the initiative. Often after a quarrel, it is easy to fall into a long cold war.
Marriage and emotional life is a part of life. If you choose the other party, you should tolerate each other and support each other for a lifetime. Spiritual derailment is a bad mental behavior for both the other party and yourself. To say the least, even if it is not for children, we should also think about the sweetness of marriage.
The above are some presentations of psychological infidelity between husband and wife. In fact, both psychological and physical infidelity will have a great impact on marital life. Many physical infidelity is based on psychological infidelity, so couples must pay attention to the communication between the sexes.